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Photo Gallery of lonely full figured cooking mamas seeking men to please - and please them back!

Food and sex have always gone together!

And for big beautiful women, they really go together.  It's more than filling her gorgeous fat belly with delicious food - it's about pleasing her man completely.

Here are thumbnail pics of real lonely BBW who love cooking fantastic meals and serving their men.   Here are gorgeous plumper babes who are seeking loving men in their lives.  Not just naughty fatty girls who get turned on by food - here are real lonely women with a lifetime of love waiting for the right man.  Hot extra large babes who can not only stand the heat in the kitchen - they long to give it out in the bedroom.  Expert cooks yearning to give their all to an appreciative man.

 

 

"Spanish cuisine is really in right now and I've been doing a lot of that.  My favorite recipe?  Chicken Diablo.  Maybe this online dating scene is finally bringing out a bit of the devil in me."

Meet sexy lonely cooks seeking men to please in every way!

Mexican cooking.  I grew up with it.  I make my living at it.  And I love to prepare it and serve it.

All I need in life is to find a big hunk of a man to please with it. 

Mexican food is one cuisine that will always have a taste and sabor (flavor) all its own.  Tortillas are the staple of Mexican cuisine. Tortillas are made by curing maize in lime water, kneading the mixture into a dough, and cooking the thin patties on a flat grill.

The most common tortillas in the United States' version of Mexican food are made of corn, although this version of the corn tortilla is quite unlike the original, authentic version. Authentic corn tortillas are made by hand on a flat grill (called a comal). The corn is ground by hand, resulting in thick tasty tortillas that the grocery store versions pale in comparison to. Flour tortillas were implemented only after the Spaniards introduced wheat to the Mexican region.

So here is how I make real Mexican Tortillas.  I use a cast iron pan given me by my grandmother!  I have them for breakfast.  Someday I will be able to make a double batch - because I will have a man to feed every morning - that is a Mexican girl's dream.

  • 1 3/4 cups masa harina
  • 1 1/8 cups water
  • 2 tablespoons refried beans
  • 2 tablespoons salsa
  • 3 eggs, beaten
  • 1 tablespoon mayonnaise
  • 1 1/2 cups shredded lettuce
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    1. In a medium bowl, mix together masa harina and hot water until thoroughly combined. Turn dough onto a clean surface and knead until pliable and smooth. If dough is too sticky, add more masa harina; if it begins to dry out, sprinkle with water. Cover dough tightly with plastic wrap and allow to stand for 30 minutes.
    2. Preheat a cast iron skillet or griddle to medium-high.
    3. Divide dough into 15 equal-size balls. Using a tortilla press, a rolling pin, or your hands, press each ball of dough flat between two sheets of plastic wrap.
    4. Immediately place tortilla in preheated pan and allow to cook for approximately 30 seconds, or until browned and slightly puffy. Turn tortilla over to brown on second side for approximately 30 seconds more, then transfer to a plate. Repeat process with each ball of dough. Keep tortillas covered with a towel to stay warm and moist until ready to serve.
    5. Stir the beans and salsa together in a small bowl until smooth. Heat a nonstick skillet over medium heat. Pour beaten eggs into pan and allow bottom to set, approximately 1 minute. Spread bean mixture onto one half of eggs and flip other half over to make a half-circle. Continue to cook until eggs are set.
    6. Spread an equal amount of mayonnaise onto each tortilla. Cut eggs into 4 equal pieces and place one piece on each tortilla. Cover each with shredded lettuce.
    7. Roll up tortillas and serve.
     

    Would you not want to meet a hot Mexican woman who would cook for you for as long as God keeps us together?

     

     

     

    Super sized woman filled with super sized love - and skills you have to taste to believe.

    A SSBBW with so much love to give.  Would you like to be mine forever?

    I bet there isn't a meal I couldn't prepare if asked.  A favorite of this big mama is:

    Pork Chops with Baked Apple

    4 Large Pork Chops

    3 Unpeeled Red Apples, Cut into Wedges

    2 Teaspoons Rosemary Leaves

    2 Teaspoons Olive Oil

    Salt & Pepper

    Olive Oil Cooking Spray

    1. Preheat oven to 210°C. Using a sharp knife, score fat around edge of chops at 3cm intervals. Sprinkle chops with salt and pepper and spray with oil spray.

    2. Heat a large non-stick frying pan over high heat. Add pork chops, two at a time, and cook for 2-3 minutes on each side until golden brown. Remove from heat.

    3. Toss apple with rosemary and oil. Spread roughly over the base of a large baking dish (do not line with baking paper). Place pork chops on top of apples and cook for 10 minutes or until pork is cooked through and apples are tender.

    4. Serve pork with apples and steamed veggies.

     

     

     

     

     

    Single Latina who knows her way around the kitchen - wouldn't you want me in your kitchen?

     

    Oh, I love my Spanish heritage and its cuisine.  Here is my favorite dinner:

    Pollo Español en Madrid Estilo - Spanish Chicken in Madrid Style

  • 3 tablespoons olive oil, divided
  • 4 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves - pounded thin
  • 1/2 cup all-purpose flour
  • 6 slices bacon, chopped
  • 2 onions, chopped
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • 6 dates, pitted and chopped
  • 2 cups chicken stock
  • 2 teaspoons chili powder
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • dried thyme to taste
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    1. Heat the olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Dredge chicken in flour to evenly coat. Brown chicken in the skillet about 2 minutes on each side.
    2. Set aside chicken, and heat remaining olive oil in the skillet. Mix in bacon, onions, and garlic, and cook until onions are tender and bacon is evenly brown. Mix in dates. Pour in the chicken stock, and bring to a boil. Reduce heat to low, and simmer 10 minutes.
    3. Return chicken to skillet. Season with chili powder, garlic powder, salt, pepper, and thyme. Cover, and continue cooking 15 minutes over low heat, or until chicken juices run clear.
    4. I serve it with hot Spanish Rice

     

     

     

    I am an extra big babe with a ton of love to give and a lifetime of lost pleasure to be given

    I'm the original jolly fat girl.  I've got lots of friends.  My only mistake was to marry the first man who wanted me.  Now I'm divorced and looking for a man who wants a monogamous relationship, no fooling around.  It's all about being faithful and being in love.  Boy, would I ever reward the right man.  I'd be his completely!  I'd really look after him.

    My favorite dish is:

    **Baked Lemon Chicken with Butterbean Mash**

    650g chicken thigh fillets

    1 Large lemon, rind finely grated, juiced

    2/3 Cup flat-leaf parsley, chopped

    1/4 Olive oil

    2x 400g cans butter beans, drained, rinsed

    25g Butter

    1/4 Cup sour cream

    1. Preheat oven to 200°C. Place chicken, lemon rind, 1/4 cup lemon juice, 2 tablespoons of parsley, oil and salt and pepper in a large Ziploc bag. Seal bag and shake until chicken is coated in marinade.

    2. Lightly grease a ceramic baking dish. Place chicken, in a single layer, in dish. Pour over marinade from bag. Bake chicken for 18 to 20 minutes or until cooked through.

    3. Meanwhile, combine beans, butter and sour cream in a saucepan. Using a potato masher, coarsely mash bean mixture. Place over medium heat. Cook, stirring occasionally, for 4 to 5 minutes or until heated through. Stir in remaining parsley. Season with salt and pepper.

    4. Serve chicken with bean mash and steamed carrots with butter and lemon juice.

     

     

     

    SSBBW Seeking a warm, kind and understanding man who is a gentleman in every sense of the word.

    A Super Size Big Beautiful Woman, Wanda has been cooking professionally for 15 years.  She's pleased many a man with her delicious meals in her restaurants.  But she has yet to find a man who really wants to love a super sized woman, as beautiful and sexy as she is.

    She loves American and European entrees.  One of her favorites is:

    **Beef and Mushroom Stroganoff**

    500g lean beef stir-fry strips

    1 Tsp paprika

    1 Tbs olive oil

    1 onion, thinly sliced

    250g button mushrooms, halved

    250ml beef stock

    1 Tbs Worcestershire sauce

    180g sour cream

    200g green beans

    1. Toss the beef in a bowl with paprika and some salt and pepper. Heat oil in a large frying pan over medium-high heat, then brown beef in batches for 2-3 minutes. Remove with a slotted spoon and set aside.

    2. Reduce heat to medium, and then add onion and cook, stirring, for 5 minutes until soft and light golden. Increase heat to high, add the mushrooms and cook, stirring, for 2 minutes or until lightly browned.

    3. Add stock and Worcestershire sauce and bring to the boil. Simmer gently over low heat for 5 minutes or until sauce is reduced slightly. Stir in sour cream, return beef and any juices to pan, then cook for 1-2 minutes until thickened. Meanwhile, steam the green beans for 3 minutes or until tender.

    4. Divide the stroganoff and beans among bowls.

    5. Serve with fresh baked potatoes.

     

     

     

    I'm an accomplished cook. I'll try anything - any recipe, that is.

    I was taught to cook from age 6 by my grandmother.  I'm great with fresh food and a hot oven.  I've got a thousand cookbooks and will try anything.

    One of my favorites is...

    **Beef Rouladen** 

  • 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard, divided
  • 2 (4 ounce) beef cube steaks
  • 1 dill pickle, cut lengthwise into 8 pieces
  • 1 small onion, thinly sliced, divided
  • 1 bacon strip, halved
  • 2 tablespoons butter or margarine
  • 1 bay leaf
  • 2 teaspoons beef bouillon granules
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary, crushed
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • 1 1/2 cups water, divided
  • 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
  • 1 teaspoon browning sauce
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    1. Spread 1 tablespoon mustard over one side of each piece of meat. Top each piece with four pickle pieces, a fourth on onion and a piece of bacon. Roll up jelly-roll style and secure with toothpicks.
    2. In a skillet, cook meat in butter on all sides until browned. Add the bay leaf, bouillon, rosemary, salt and remaining onion. Stir in 1-1/4 cups water; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and simmer for 1-1/2 to 1-3/4 hours or until meat is tender.
    3. Remove meat and keep warm. Combine flour and remaining water until smooth. Gradually stir into juices in skillet. Bring to a boil; cook and stir for 1-2 minutes or until thickened. Discard bay leaf. Stir in browning sauce if desired.
    4. Oh yes, remove the toothpicks before serving.
     

     

     

     

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    Why men are attracted to curvy plus size women.

    What body type do you think is most attractive to men? Most of us would guess that the majority of guys are attracted to skinny girls. Right? The media does a very effective job of programming us from the time we are born to believe that you have to be a size 2 in order to be considered desirable to the opposite sex. The fact is, only a small percentage of the population has that body type. Why is that considered normal?

    The answer is that the diet and weight loss industry is not just an "industry", it is a multibillion dollar monster. Combine that with he fashion industry, the cosmetic surgery industry, and the health and beauty industry and you have some very heavy hitters. When you have that kind of money invested in the game, why the heck would you change it?

    As long as girls grow up thinking that their butt is too big and their breasts are too small, then they have a guaranteed market to sell to. Brilliant really. What the heck is Dove thinking with their campaign for real beauty? Do they have a death wish? Perhaps like me, they have just had enough of the lie. False images like the ones we see every day on TV do serious damage to the tender psyche of or youth. Ask yourself how you felt about your own body growing up? Or now? Chances are, you are not content with it.

    Do not despair! The truth has been revealed. A recent study at three college campuses in the US, concluded that the vast majority of men (ages 19-27) rate a woman's curves as more important than dress size alone. When shown 90 separate images of women of all sizes and shapes, 83.7% of the test subjects chose women who were curvy over skinny girls. Many of the highest ratings were actually well known models in the "plus-size" fashion niche. The fact is, guys like curves. It is one of the wonderful things that make a woman's body what it is.

    It's more than having whopping 38F titties - it's about living large.

    What we can take away from this is that regardless of what body shape or size you are, you can use it to your advantage. There are plenty of men out there that think you are beautiful. College men in fact! So if you are a lady of curves, flaunt them. If you are considered plus size, and get frustrated shopping for clothes, go online. There are many amazing plus size catalogs online and you can find some really cute outfits. No more frumpy dumpy sweat pants. Get out there and look good!

     

     

    >>> One Fat Girl - 2 Fat Women

    I 1st encountered Clarissa Dickson-Wright, one amongst the legendary 2 Fat Women of the successful cookery series, many years ago at the fabled bookshop Books for Cooks. I remember her; I don't flatter myself that she would ever keep in mind me. She had just started to figure there. I went there each few months to buy piles of cookbooks regarding everything from Entertaining to Indonesian cooking.

    There was no spark of sympathy between us. Clarissa looked to me, at the time, sort of a down and out. After all she was living in sheltered accommodation in recovery from alcoholism and a violent, traumatic childhood. I used to be in massive denial concerning my emotionally abusive marriage.

    Our paths intersected sometimes, momentarily. Then each our lives moved on.

    This morning, I listened to her speak on the radio.

    I'd heard her tell her story before on the radio. This point it struck me quite differently. (Currently why may that be, unless it relates to my own personal development in the meantime?) Four things that she said, in particular, stand out.

    The first relates to her abused childhood. As she herself says, she had a financially privileged childhood - that meant that her father smashed her head against a fine marble fireplace. Her childhood was horrendous. Her father, a surgeon, was professionally gifted and completely brutal in his treatment of his children. She mentioned a listing of broken bones.

    She additionally said that his treatment made her stronger. She determined that she would be a success so as to 'show him'. And she showed each promise of success. She was the youngest person to qualify for the Bar. She had a great future sooner than her as a barrister and a judge. However when her mother died and, as she place it, her alcoholic father was a cabbage, she started to consume industrial quantities of alcohol - two pints of gin, with four pints of tonic on a daily basis, plus ? bottle of vodka and beer...

    The second relates to her wilderness years. The alcohol, the misery and therefore the squandering of a fortune and her exceptional talents went on for many years. It went on until she realised she might place her burden down. And she did.

    The third relates to her recovery. Born a Catholic, Clarissa did not have much time for church going, but she did, and will, believe in some reasonably deity.

    When asked by the interviewer, Michael Buerk, how she escaped the path of self-destruction she said that she asked for help. And help was forthcoming. Although maybe not in any immediately recognisable, reassuring way. But still, her requests to her God for help caused a amendment in her circumstances and started her on the road back to life, abstinence, happiness and success.

    The fourth thing regarding Clarissa Dickson-Wright is that she may be a remarkably resilient character, not least as a result of she doesn't 'do' shame, self-flagellation or self-loathing. She is, in alternative words, quite accepting of her own failings. And it might somewhat be that this self-acceptance generates her energy and her resilience.

    When you think regarding it, shame, self-flagellation and self-loathing expend vast quantities of emotional energy totally pointlessly. You would possibly similarly go outside and stand viewing your car - or for that matter anybody else's automobile - and say: "Well, begin then." Willing it to begin while not beginning the motor is not going to realize the desired effect. Although it could leave you feeling seriously helpless and hopeless, if you had mistakenly believed that it might.

    Clarissa Dickson-Wright may be a lady who has lost a lot, including a fortune, years of her life and her figure; she's also achieved a lot. More to the purpose, she has found which means and fulfilment in her life. Regret for all that she had lost, or all that she had never had would have paralysed her. Instead, she had an awareness that there were mountains out there.

    Her belief that she could climb them was the issue that empowered her to try and do so. What higher role model could there be for abused ladies everywhere than this gigantic lady (in every respect) who has return back from the depths without depending on a person, while not her appearance, without being a size 8 and while not a penny to her name?

    Annie Kaszina Ph D, may be a coach and author who has helped hundreds of girls to rebuild their confidence and their life when an abusive relationship. Annie is the author of "The Girl You Wish To Be". This ebook will teach you how you'll be able to love yourself initial, therefore that you'll produce strong self-belief and build the fulfilling future you are wanting for on firm foundations.

     

     

    >>> Cunnilingus - Tips to Drive Her Crazy with oral sex

    There is no greater pleasure in life (in my opinion) than the look on a womans face when you drive her crazy in bed and give her orgasms so powerful that she screams the house down.

    Unfortunately a lot of women can go for years without recieving an orgasm from their lover. This is through no fault of their own, it's simply that her lover is not very skilled at making a woman orgasm.

    Fact is that up to 80% of women do not reach climax from sex. So how do you give her an orgasm every time? Simple! cunnilingus. Women who get cunnilingus from a man who is skilled at it will reach orgasm every time.

    Not surprising really when you consider that the vagina has several thousand nerve endings all waiting to be stimulated. Lots of these are not inside, so it's little wonder that learning to lick a woman will give her the best orgasm of her life.

    Learning how to give a woman an orgasm with your tongue will be the best thing your ever do. Not only does cunnilingus give the the best ever orgasms but cunnilingus works for 2 other reasons as well.

    1. Women who don't get orgasms cheat on you. Fact. But when you have mastered cunnilingus then this will not effect you as she will never need to cheat on a guy who can make her orgasm with your tongue.

    2. Being as women are very unselfish by their nature, then when you make her orgasm with your tongue then she will feel obliged to return the favour. Great trade cunnilingus for fellatio.

    Almost all women love to receive cunnilingus. She may be too shy to ask, but you can be certain that she craves for it. According to a recent poll, only 25% of women actually reach orgasm from vaginal sex. And 40% of women don't enjoy penetration sex at all. This is an alarming statistics.

    If you want to please your girl in bed, cunnilingus is your best bet. In this article, let me share with you some tricks to give her a mind-blowing cunnilingus:

    1. Sweeping. This is a great move and a must to use when you go down on her. Place your tongue on either the left or right hand side of her clitoris and move from side to side as though you were sweeping the floor. Start off with slow strokes so as to not surprise your partner and gradually increase the pace.

    2. Circles. This is another fantastic move and is one of the most pleasurable cunnilingus techniques of all time. You'll want to use this a lot as it seldom gets boring. Position your tongue either to the left or right of your partner's clitoris. You will begin moving your tongue in circles around the clitoris only, either in a clockwise or anti-clockwise motion.

    3. Suction. This is an extremely powerful move and is best performed when your partner is sufficiently aroused. Take note that suction too early in the game may turn her off completely as the sensation may be too strong for her to take it. You'll want to take her clitoris gently into your mouth and suck on it lightly as though you were drinking from a straw. Be careful not to be too rough when you are performing this move!

    4. ABC's. This move may sound funny but it is a very powerful cunnilingus technique. Position your tongue either to the side or the top of the clitoris and begin drawing your ABC. You can vary this move by drawing other things like numbers, shapes or even her name.

    5. Vacuum. Same as suction, only use this move when your partner is fully aroused. Place your mouth over her clitoris and gently suck it in and out of your mouth. You may want to avoid using this move when she is having an orgasm unless she requests it. The sensation may be too strong for her to take.

     

     

    >>> Cunnilingus - Cunnilingus Position to Make Her Orgasm Almost 100% of the Time 

    In order for a lady to achieve orgasm during cunnilingus, the essence of change is very important. If you perform cunnilingus in the same position every time during lovemaking, she will feel bored and is difficult for her to reach orgasm.

    Cunnilingus has the same basic concept, which is to lick the vulva and clitoris. Using the various tongue techniques can get you far, but is not enough. The trick is to vary the positions in which you perform cunnilingus on her.

    In this article, let me share with you 3 cunnilingus positions to make her orgasm almost 100% of the time:

    1. Legs up position. This is by far the most popular and widely used cunnilingus position of all time. In this position, your partner lays on a flat surface and you place your head squarely between her legs. This is the position that most women find it most comfortable and you should do your best to please her in this position.

    2. Backward position. The backward cunnilingus position is sometimes known as the "69" position. In this position, you will invert your body so that your legs are on the same end of the bed as her head and her legs are on the same end of the bed as your head. This position is great for your neck because the neck retains a more natural position. This position is great to last a long time.

    3. Doggy style. This cunnilingus position is very similar to the intercourse version of Doggy style. In this position, your partner will go down on all fours, tilting her hips slightly towards the ceiling. You will then position your face within licking and sucking distance of her vulva. This position offers a lot of variations. The woman generally stays in the same position while you can alter your placement in regards to her vulva, whichever way you choose. This makes each doggy style cunnilingus session different.

    So the next time you go down on your lady, don't always stick to one position. Be a little more adventurous and explore other positions that can bring her to orgasm heaven during cunnilingus.

    However, knowing these positions and some tongue technique is not enough to give an earth-shattering cunnilingus. Most men think any lick will do. WRONG. In fact, if you do it incorrectly, you will turn her off immediately. Visit the website below to learn how to give powerful cunnilingus and give your partner MULTIPLE orgasms with cunnilingus:

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    ONE FINAL TIP: Tell her you love her taste!

     

     

    >>> Three common myths about marriage

    There is one thing that is true to all myths. They are not based on known truths, but more on cultural interpretations. Instead of letting myths about marriage cause future problems in a relationship, I would like to assist you in busting these myths and finding truths to help you build strong and healthy relationships.

    The key to a good strong marriage, is realizing in the beginning that happiness is a long-term process. Both partners have to work hard to last of the test of time.

    Myth number one-Finding your soul mate
    Some couples who come to my office with marital problems, often complain that their partner is not the person they thought they were. Early in the marriage, things were different. They were sure that this was Mr. or Mrs. Right, but now they are not so sure. Although people do change, and sometimes not for the better, it has been my experience that the majority of these complaints are caused by unrealistic expectations about their partner that may have been avoided by better communication early on.

    Myth number two-In time, a married couple will automatically grow closer
    The fact is, a strong marriage is the product of continuous care and cultivation. There are few things in life that will automatically get better without any work or effort. For example, if you're trying to get back in shape, a step you might take is to make a long-term commitment by signing a membership contract with the local gym. However, the commitment by itself does not do much to get you back in to shape. Assuming you will automatically get back into shape without any effort is just a silly as expecting a marriage to improve and grow without working at it.

    A marriage is a living thing, and all living things are constantly evolving. As time goes by, it is perfectly normal for one or both partners to feel unaffectionate toward the other occasionally. You may even wonder why the heck you get married and the first place. A partnership without occasional anger and resentment is a myth. A marriage with a strong foundation anchored in love and respect will overcome these rough spots and grow closer. But assuming that the process will be automatic is foolish.

    Myth number three-Arguing is a sign of a weak marriage
    When a couple first gets married, they may hold the belief that arguing is bad. Their expectation is that because they love each other, things should go smoothly. Eventually, the reality is that two people dealing with children, money, sex, responsibilities, and each other will have disagreements.

    If you don't accept early on that all couples will face problems and have arguments, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. The fact is, arguing in a civil and respectable manner is very healthy for a relationship. Harboring resentments and keeping quiet is a recipe for problems.

    As an example, a couple that recently came into my office, have already separated and are seriously considering divorce. Carl told me that he was totally blindsided by Maria's request to separate. "We never fight." was Carl's response. It is true, they very rarely disagreed on anything. Carl would decide what programs they watched on television, what restaurant they should go to, etc. Maria just silently agreed. But after talking to Maria, she stated that Carl was overbearing and pushy. If he didn't get his way he would always start arguing. It was easier to just let him have his way. After listening to their dialogue, I actually sided with Carl. Although car was partially responsible, the fact that Maria suppressed her feelings and harbored resentment, in lieu of arguing or making waves, is what ultimately caused the separation.

    It may sound crazy, but heated debates and disagreements can be a positive event in a marriage. The important thing to remember however, is that there is a right and wrong way to argue. Avoid using words like "always" and "never." Try to make your point without attacking the other person. When someone feels attacked, the normal responses is to withdraw and counterattack. If you expect your partner to communicate honestly with you, you need to allow them the opportunity to disagree.

     

     

     

     

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