DATING TIPS - How To Find Your Loving Man

>>> TIP: "Most men that I surveyed say they’d prefer sex with love, even single men in their twenties and early thirties."  --Kara Oh, author of Men Made Easy, How To Get What You Want From Your Man

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>> THE NEW SEXUAL RULES:  WHAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW IN A NEW DATING WORLD  by Kate Falken

"I've been out of the dating game for years. Now that I'm trying to meet someone, I'm lost. What do I do?"

I get the opportunity to review a number of dating and relationships products that come across my desk, and all of them look the same. They take you in hand and tell you how to talk, how to dress, how to act, what the latest dating rules are, and their mystery technique that is going to guarantee you success. It might be a secret technique, a way of standing out, or the knowledge of what men REALLY want, as if we didn't already know. I was recently talking to Amy Waterman of 000Relationships.com and she told me that she had something new to look at, and I really hoped it wouldn't be like the courses I had just described. I was pleasantly surprised!

At last, something that doesn't teach women to act like men or play dumb like bimbos. This is a course for real women, women with minds and intellects, women who want to attract men without compromising their integrity. Amy Waterman, author and host of How To Be Irresistible To Men, Seduction Genie, and a host of other relationships resources, has joined forces with Marie Forleo, author of Make Every Man Want You (Or Make Yours Want You More): How to Be So Darn Irresistible You'll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!

Amy and Marie are both well-known names in the relationships market, and it is quite exciting to see what they have created. The result of their collaboration is MAKE EVERY MAN WANT YOU MORE, a course that answers the real questions that real women have about making dating, commitment, and modern relationships work. I loved listening to their lessons on hot topics like:

1. How to Be Irresistible Now.

2. The Essential Tools Every Modern Woman Needs in a Modern Dating World.

3. Keys to Creating Instant Attraction.

4. How to Authentically Get and Keep His Attention.

5. No-Fail Topics to Talk about with Any Man.

6. Deadly Dating Mistakes that Turn Men Off.

Marie and Amy have cleverly incorporated the concept of "living in the moment" or "living in the now" into their course. Authors and thinkers from Eckhart Tolle to Wayne Dyer have discussed this concept widely, and now Marie and Amy have taken this concept and applied it to the dating world.

It seems to work, and I was hooked on what they had to say! Most other courses train people to believe that having a relationship is what is going to bring you happiness. It's not. You are looking for a relationship because you want one, not because someone tells you that you need one. Marie tell us how your irresistibility lies in this moment, because this is where life happens.

It's not about aiming towards creating happiness in your future; it is about making it happen in this moment. This is a course that teaches the philosophy of being fully engaged in your life, being fully awake, and conscious.

This course is a refreshing look at attracting men because it doesn't start by trying to "fix" you. It doesn't assume you are "broken," which makes me want to read more. It asks you to acknowledge your past, but not to be defined by it. Every moment you are in is said to be brand new, has never happened before, and will never happen again. If you are able to get into this mindspace with Marie and Amy, real changes are going to take place.

Marie and Amy's MAKE EVERY MAN WANT YOU MORE!! answers the big questions about life and love from women who want more from their life and want a change to their dating success, but don't want to buy into the "rules" of dating, or play games. I almost feel that Marie and Amy really identify with their customers, rather than speaking down to them. I find that style really engaging, and a refreshing departure from courses that make you feel really bad about what you have done in the past. It's time to let your past go and live in the moment, according to Amy and Marie. That's a great way to keep me interested.

When I took the time to get into this course and listen to the audio tracks and read through the workbook, it really came to me that this course has the potential to transform lives. It actually encourages readers to be more self-aware, more present in the moment, and more fully participative in life and relationships. Any course that combines these principles with dating advice is worth my recommendation. The audio quality is really nice and clear for an online audio course too, which really gets a thumbs up from me.

In addition to the 4.5 hours of audio, you get a 125-page workbook and bonus interviews, including an interview with podcaster and personal coach Emily McKay, better known for her work in X and Y On The Fly and Online Dating Profile Rating. They tackle some really interesting topics like dating over 50, dating as a single mom, and hearing your biological clock ticking.

MAKE EVERY MAN WANT YOU MORE is the solution you've been looking for if you are looking for ways to let your past go and focus on what needs to be done today. Making every man want you more starts today, and before the end of the first lesson, you'll realize why the future you dream of isn't so far away at all.

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>> UNDERSTAND YOUR MAN: 50 UNIVERSAL TRUTHS ABOUT MEN by Kate Falken

There are many reasons why women have relationship trouble, but the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires...

Well -- actually it really is something like that. 

The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

So -- here they are -- the 50 Universal Truths about Men:

1. Why should I remind you that "I love you?" I already told you once.

2. I'll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.

3. I hate arguing with you. I'd much rather find a compromise.

4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.

5. When you speak softly, I can't help but listen.

6. I need to be told "no" sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.

7. Please do not ask me how you look unless you're willing to trust my answer.

8. My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.

9. When you're happy with me I can't help but want to please you.

10. If I do not feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.

11. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.

12. Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.

13. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she will take advantage of me.

14. If you can't stand up to me when I am a brat, you're too weak for me to open up to when I am upset.

15. Sitting quietly next to me after you've made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. You'll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.

16. You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I am considering leaving you.

17. I don't read minds. Remember, I'm not a girl.

18. You may know fashion, but I wish you would dress to please me, not other women.

19. If I am losing my hair, it's not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?

20. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I listened to you talk about what is important to you.

21. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.

22. You look hot in a dress.

23. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel you are my mother.

24. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.

25. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch.

26. I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you are married!?

27. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.

28. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.

29. Being respected is more important to me that being loved.

30. I want every guy to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don't let yourself go.

31. When I am upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important that what you say.

32. I hate it when you minimize/ignore my compliments. It makes me what to stop giving them.

33. I am more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much?

34. I do not always know how I feel. That is why I don't tell you.

35. I don't need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.

36. If I do one thing and say something contradictory, go with my actions -- that will always tell you what is in my heart.

37. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something. (Like a favor).

38. I really do not want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.

39. If I don't share what I am thinking it's because I don't think you will listen without interrupting.

40. I don't like to argue and I don't like to guess what's wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.

41. I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it is a Freudian thing.

42. Do not ask me, "Are you going to wear that?" when I am already dressed.

43. A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.

44. If you don't believe you are pretty, you won't believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it.

45. It isn't how much you weigh; it is that your body is proportionate which is so attractive.

46. Sometimes I have weird and strange thoughts. I don't take them seriously and I don’t want to share them with you (or anyone).

47. Sometimes you really do not want to know what I am thinking. See above.

48. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.

49. I don't remember everything about our relationship and that doesn't mean I don't love you.

50. I need some time to myself to calm down when I am upset so that I don't say something I will regret.

>> SEXUAL ATTRACTION: 3 SIGNS THAT HE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU  by Kate Falken

Here's the hidden key to a loving relationship. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.

So many of my female clients don't even seem to know if the man they have just dated even likes them. They want to know: "Was he really attracted to me? Did he find me sexy?"

Bob Grant, known as The Relationship Doctor, and author of the best selling THE WOMEN MEN ADORE... AND NEVER WANT TO LEAVE explains, "While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by men, seduction is 99% mental sorcery. Over the years, I've wanted to teach this and other powerful relationship principles to more than just the female clients who are able to travel to my office in Georgia for relationship counseling."

Bob has spoken of the Three Signs That a man is interested in the woman he has just dated:

1. He Makes Good Eye Contact.

Since guys are visual, it goes without saying that they stare at women whom they find attractive. This is significant because, as a general rule of thumb, men tend to avoid prolonged eye contact because of its threatening nature (think Alpha Male stuff).

In addition, every man can tell you a story of some woman he was nice to, who misinterpreted his kindness as an indication of romantic interest. If you ask 100 men why they are so guarded about giving a woman the wrong impression, the answer is simple, "Because she might not leave."

HOW TO RESPOND: When you notice his gaze, simply smile back while maintaining eye contact for a couple of seconds and then quickly look away. This simple gesture is all the invitation he will need to approach you.

2. He'll Listen to You

Need I mention that men hate being bored. Women don't prefer it, but men detest it. Nothing is more boring to most men than being trapped in a conversation with someone who doesn't interest them. If you were to ask how you can tell if you are the woman who is holding him hostage, relax. Most men won't listen long enough for that to happen to you. If he is listening to you talk about your work, friends or other interests for more than 5 minutes, he's interested in you.

HOW TO RESPOND: Remember that the person doing the talking is NOT in control. The listener is in control. You want the conversation centered on him so that you can begin training him to be emotionally dependent on you.

Men always find women who listen to them to be irresistible. When you are listening, be sure to make eye contact with him occasionally. Most women can easily do two things at once, so resist the urge to listen and look elsewhere.

Without some eye contact, you may hear what he is saying, but you won't look like you care.

3. He Frequents Your Friends

Most men know that if you simply approach a woman and give her a "YES" or "NO" question, you only have a 50/50 chance of her saying yes, or worse. Therefore, the clever guys are those who slowly infiltrate your inner circle of friends because they know if your friends like them, they have a better chance with you.

Don't be threatened if you see a guy strike up a conversation with one of your girlfriends. Yes, he may just be interested in her and not you, but there is a good chance you are the primary target. As a guy gets to know your friends, it becomes easier for him to approach both of you in the future.

HOW TO RESPOND: If you notice him talking to one of your gal pals, don't approach them too quickly. In fact, don't approach them at all. Act as though you did not notice them speaking and maintain your distance.

The next time you are with that friend, stay close to her and he will be able to approach you, through her.

>>> How to Use Your Body Language To Flirt And Draw A Man Towards You - 3 Simple Rules  

Actions certainly speak a lot more than words. If you are interested in some guy, and want him to notice you, it may not be necessary to go and talk to him. If you use your body language to send signals, it may act more strongly and serve your purpose. But always remember to keep it subtle. The subtlety will help him to know that you are interested in him and not eager for him. There is a lot of difference between the two. So let us find out the correct way to charm men without speaking a word.

The body language can act as a magnet. It has enormous power to attract the one you want. But it should be used carefully. If misused, it may hamper the relationship even before it has started. While trying to attract him, you may send the wrong signals and scare him off. You should know how to proceed, be aware of the rules and follow them intently.

Here are some body languages that you can use and draw your man towards you.

Warm and gentle smile

A smile is the simplest and easiest way to start an acquaintance. It may be the beginning of a relationship of just glances, but be sure to smile when he looks at you. A warm and genuine smile may be the doorway to his heart. Be sure to make it real lest he may mistake it for a grimace.

Listening ear

If the smile has worked just fine and you reach the level of holding a conversation with him, make sure to listen to him intently. If he notices that you are genuinely interested in what he has to say, he will love to talk to you and will speak his heart out with fervor and give him a chance to flirt. Your body language can work wonders, isn't it?

Be discreet

You mustn't be too open about your approach. Even if you are trying to use your body language to attract a man, you should do it in a way that others don't guess it. You should not let everyone in the room to understand your motives.

You have the power to attract a man and flirt with him. You cannot wait for destiny for such an opportunity. If you like someone, then show them that you are interested, cast the magic spell, use your body language, he will surely run after you and flirt with you. So follow these simple rules girls, and let your magic rule.

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How many dates does it take to make a decision about whether or not you want to pursue a relationship?

I've always been curious about this aspect of dating, because very few women have comparable experiences. With some dates, the knowledge is immediate and instinctual. With other dates, months may pass before the endearing nature of his laugh, his smile, his character becomes apparent.

I know that I am a slow warmer. I am wary when I meet a man for the first time. I am dubious of his intentions. I read innuendo where none was intended. It takes me time to let down my guard.

It's not because I'm naturally a suspicious person. It's because, in the realm of relationships, I've been burned enough by bad apples.

I'm representative of most women my age. By one's thirties, one has experienced enough bad relationships to associate the dualities of pain and pleasure with a man. One is never sure how much to trust.

But this isn't natural.

Twenty years ago, I loved all boys. I played with them innocently and full-heartedly. Boys were my playmates, my cohorts in crime, and my teammates for games. I could think no evil of boys. Their strange preferences for dirt, body odor, cars, and constrictive underpants were simply idiosyncrasies of fascinating playmates.

As I grew older, I realized that boys could no longer be trusted to play innocently with me. My first two male friends in college were cool--a jazz musician and an Apple Mac gamer--until I realized they "liked" me. I quickly dissolved the friendships. I wanted the innocent companionship and friendship of my childhood male schoolmates. I didn't realize that maturing would erase that possibility completely.

When do we women lose our innocence with men? And can we ever regain it?

In my line of work, one great danger is to take relationships and attraction too seriously. Many women feel that the potential of the man they are seeing is a matter of life or death. Instead of having fun playing with him (like a child with a favorite playmate), they evaluate his potential as a father. They situate any future relationship squarely in the realm of adulthood. The rest of their lives is at stake.

My flatmate tells me that the definition of compatibility as a couple is when his or her issues are compatible with your issues.

That's a pretty adult view of the situation.

I have a different view. I believe that you know a man is compatible with you if he likes to play the same "games" you like to play. Maybe you like to tease in a certain way; maybe there's a certain game in bed that you like to play. Maybe you like to go out; maybe you like to mountain bike. If he likes to enjoy himself and have fun and laugh in the same ways as you, you've found a potential soulmate.

We all knew back in childhood that there were some children that we could play with for ages, and there were others who liked games that didn't interest us. It's the same with men and women.

Yet in our attempt to find a suitable man, we often forget to look for one that we have fun with. One that makes the kinds of jokes we find funny (and laughs at our jokes). One that is up for any crazy scheme we propose. One that will make our life happy and light-hearted, not just important and successful.

Life is serious and dry enough. We don't need relationships to replicate those patterns.

Relationships should be a haven from life's dry seriousness. You should be able to feel like a child with your partner, unembarrassed at the silliest of games. Together, you will be responsible for forming a life, raising children, making a home ... but all this will only be enjoyable if you can laugh together.

I have been out on dates with many successful, intense, highly attractive men. I admire them, appreciate them, and learn much from conversations with them. These are the men who will shape the world. No woman can fail to respond to their power.

But as for myself ... in my little, humble world ... I envision my ideal future as one in which there is always laughter, in which I can return to childhood with my spouse and play those games that I didn't get to play enough before I grew "old." I want us to be able to chase one another around the room, have pillow fights, and wrestle. I want us to tease one another, share silly jokes, and dissolve the seriousness of a working day with the magical spell of humor.

So, I suppose, the answer to my question is that it takes exactly the number of dates you need to decide whether you've found a companion you can play with. Some kids find a game they can play with each other right off the bat. Other kids end up trying lopsided games that one but not the other likes until they either find a game they like in common or give up.

Trust your child-heart's instinct. Ask yourself ... if you were a kid, would you play with this guy? Or would he be one of those kids who tries to control the game, or change the rules, or cheat?

A partner who makes life more fun is a treasure indeed,

All the best in life and love,

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About the Author: Amy Waterman is a professional writer specializing in attraction, dating, and relationships. She has extensive experience in helping women find love with her insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making relationships work. She is currently the host of the latest edition of "HOW TO BE IRRESISTIBLE TO MEN," which is part of the 000Relationships Network.

Her innovative program is a powerful instant-access multimedia course with a comprehensive supporting workbook. Additionally, members receive a number of bonus e-books on topics ranging from overcoming shyness to kissing, a 160-minute online video library, secrets of self-hypnosis, their very own personal email consultation, and much, much more! The "How To Be Irresistible To Men" Premium Course offers all women – single or not - a dynamic and comprehensive toolkit to attract love into their lives and establish strong and supportive relationships.

Why Men Want Sex and Women Want Love
Copyright (C) 2009 Elena Solomon, author of  12 SIMPLE RULES

Men are frustrated with women because they never want sex.
Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.

Women blame men they don't know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to make it.

Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this article can change your life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the opposite gender.

The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone. A normal male's body produces 20 times more of this hormone than a female's. 

In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.

Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the opposite gender. It's NOT their fault: they are made this way! It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.

Men and women are DIFFERENT. 
Not better or worse, just different.

A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky about who she allows to have sex with her. 

For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived disproportionally. Those children were carrying their picky mother's genes and this is why those female genes were passed to us.

On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes would be passed forward. The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children were carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why those male genes were passed to us.

By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can spread their seed wider.

By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they can make a better choice and get the best seed.

Men seek quantity - women seek quality.

This is why men seek sex and women seek love.

Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.

For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion. 

This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship - and love.

Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.

All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what's going on. 

But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring.

So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of The Species.

And you'll be better off understanding what the other gender is going through and giving them exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or exhilarating love.

Go get 'em! :-)

About the Author:  Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

Her latest book  12 SIMPLE RULES  became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you EXACTLY how you can utilize the natural laws of attraction and our in-built sexual strategies to win in the game of love.

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