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>>> How to Satisfy a Big Beautiful Woman: What are BBW favorite sexual positions?  A Featured Men's Health Article by Kate Falken

"What sexual positions do really big women love?"

"How can I completely satisfy my 259 pound woman? I'm meeting her for the first time this weekend!"

This is becoming a bigger concern in the dating world.

Now that men who have always been attracted to full figured women are going on the top BBW Dating Sites and meeting big curvy women, they are asking "How do I make love with a big mama?"

A survey among married women over 40 indicated the following positions as their favorite: Missionary (man on top), 69 (mutual oral sex), Cowgirl (woman on top) and Hands On (mutual masturbation) as the top four. A survey of younger women revealed: Cowgirl, 69, Missionary and Spooning (intercourse from behind, laying on the side).

These apply to women on average, but individuals vary widely in their wants.

In fact, there are many women who have never even experienced an intense orgasm in their lives, even women who may have been married for years.  This may be why some divorced women, when posting their profiles on dating sites, will actively seek men who are willing to be "sexually experimental" - which usually means "Oral Sex."

Jeanie, who decribes herself as a "super sized fat gal" answered the survey in this manner: "Oral sex. I love giving it and I love receiving it. I live for it. I think a lot of fat women are oral in their likes, whether it's food or sex."

There is some truth in her observation. Another respondant said: "I love oral sex. A man who would thrill me with his tongue until his face is wet with my juices would have my love for life."

This love of receiving oral pleasure is reflected by women of all sizes, ages and most cultural backgrounds. After all, only 60% of women ever achieve orgasm though sexual intercourse (some newer surveys are indicating an even lower percentage, some as low as 40%). 

However, a reported 92% of women who have had cunnilingus (oral sex) performend on them achieve orgasms. The downside of this is that many men refuse to"eat pussy." Such willing men are in demand. As the old saying goes among sex therapists, "Men who love performing oral sex will always get a second date - and usually a yes to a marriage proposal."  Single and divorced women are hearing about the joys of cunnilingus from their female friends and it is on their minds when they seek men online.

Some men are worried that a BBW's size might discourage her from wanting certain positions. Unless she is athletic or has strong legs, Cowgirl may be difficult, for instance.

With intercourse, Big women prefer their man on top or from behind.

Because a bigger women usually has fat around her Mound of Venus and outer labia, her inner labia and clitoris may be much deeper than thinner women you've dated or seen on adult sites. Things are more hidden. She may be extra sensitive there and require patience and a slow hand.

So - what positions would a Big Mama you're going to date really love? If you're too shy (and many men are) just to come out and ask her - or at least hint - then you may have to find out by exploration. If your relationship is a truly romantic one with long term in mind, then there's no rush, is there? Discovering what you both like is part of the fun.

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Judging by most of the Women of Size that I've discussed this with, I would recommend the following course of action for BBW:

First. Start with plenty of carressing and kissing. After all, there's lots to kiss and she'll really get turned on.

Second. Slowly ease into licking her thighs and vagina. The easiest position for this (other positions are hard on the neck, especially with a big woman) is 69, with you laying so that your genitals are in her face. This leaves her free to fondle and stroke your penis. If your only experience with cunnilingus is porn videos, forget what you've seen. Remember, you're not "having sex" with her, you're "making love." Take your time, starting gently, very gently. Respond to her voice and the way she moves her body under your mouth. She is probably very sensitive there. Build slowly and lick gently until she is completely satisfied.

Third. After that, finish with whichever position she prefers: intercourse, hands-on or felatio - by now she'll probably let you know what she wants to do. Any shyness she may have had will be lessened and she'll probably tell you if she wants you on top or behind with intercourse - or she wants to finish by performing oral sex on you.

The positions for fulfilling lovemaking may be limited with the majority of large ladies, but what I've just described will make most BBW your undying lover for life.

Other activities such as role playing, toys and so on will be uncovered as your relationship blooms.

It's important to remember that, while some super sized women have lived a sexually fulfilling life, many more have lived a lonely or hurtful life.  It isn't just Sex they want from you - it's Love! 

SSBBW and penis size.

Some men seem to think that a larger woman may need a longer penis to satisfy her.  This is not true.  While a woman with a large belly and thighs may make full penetration awkward, this is a rare situation.  And it only applies to the Missionary Position, not positions such as doggy, where full penetration is easily accomplished.  And the fact is that women who prefer oral sex (and that's MOST women), really want a smaller penis in their mouth for long bouts of sixty-nine.  As Sandra R. once told me, "I want to lick and suck and taste that little beauty, not end up with a sore jaw!"

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>>> How You Can Use Sexual Touch To Deepen Intimacy 

Do you know you can develop greater sexual intimacy with your partner by touching? Through sexual touching, you will be able to discover some unknown aspects of your own as well as your partner's sexuality. This is best done when you are in a relaxed mood.

Here is how you can increase sexual intimacy by touching:

(1) Relax and take your own sweet time

Indeed this is not meant to be a hurried activity or a "quickie" kind of sex. Set aside some time to do this, at least give yourself an hour.

(2) Think of this as a kind of meditation

You have to clear your mind of other thoughts and be in a state of calmness in order to concentrate on your touching. You can do this after you have exercised or finished yoga.

(3) Put your partner at ease

Begin this with a hot, relaxing bath. If your partner has some physical pain, put him/her in a comfortable position with the help of pillow, blanket, floor mat or chair.

(4) Create the conducive atmosphere

Make sure the room temperature is not too hot or too cold, and the lighting is not too glaring or too dim. Play on some soothing music. Kenny G's type of saxophone music will be great.

(5) Say something nice to your partner about which parts of the body you like

Stay focus on the parts of the body that turn you on and tell him/her how much you love these attractive areas that can keep you admiring at for ages.

(6) Watch closely your partner's response

Observe carefully how he/she reacts to your touch and how you feel when your hands are in contact with certain parts of the body. Do pay attention to the details such as any changes in the breathing, the changes in facial expression and possible changes in the surface of the skin.

(7) Make full use the different parts of your body

You can use your fingertips, the palm of your hand, the back of your hand or the side of wrist, or probably the tip of your nose/tongue/toes. You can be a bit imaginative or creative as long as this does not cause any discomfort to him/her.

(8) Trying the different ways of touching and alternating the degree of pressure

You can rub, scratch, tap, tickle or lick to increase the fun of touching. Do change the strength of your touch by switching slowly back and forth between firm and vigorous touch to soft and gentle touch.

>>> Make Her Want More Of Your Kissing 

Kissing is a crucial part of the sexual process. When human kiss, it triggers a series of activity in the brain and adrenal glands that cause a sharp increase in nerve stimulation and sexual excitement all over the body.

Build up the mood first

Set the mood by whispering sweet compliments in her ears such as telling her how much you like the smell of her hair, how hot she is, what you think about her, etc. Flirt until she inches closer to you.

Start with the lips without using your tongue

Begin with light kissing of her lips (either the top lip or bottom lip or both lips). A kiss without using your tongue is perfectly okay. However, if you want to use it, open your mouth a little wider, gently pushing your tongue against her tongue.

Make full use of your hands

Put your hands around her neck or waist, on the back of her head, or her cheeks.

Observe her reactions

Do not assume she likes what you like. Experiment with the different types of kissing and the amount of pressure in order to gauge her preference.

Try the different ways of kissing

Here are some of the ways of kissing you can consider:

(a) Single-lip kiss - take one of her lips between yours and gently suck on it (b) Earlobe kiss - taking her earlobe lightly between your lips and gently tug it downwards (c) Wet kiss - any open-mouthed kissing, with or without tongue but not with excessive saliva (d) French kiss - open-mouthed kissing where your tongue touches her tongue

Some other areas she probably likes to be kissed

Besides her lips, you can kiss the back of her neck, her collarbone, hips, breasts, face (light kissing on her cheeks, forehead, and jaw line).

>>> Release the "Bad Girl" Inside Her 

She steps out of the bathroom and she sees you admiring her body. But she feels uneasy and quickly wraps the towel around her body.

You move down to her body and want to stimulate the area between her legs. She gets shy and says she does not want you to do this.

Does this sound familiar to you?

These are some of the situations which indicate she is not as sexually comfortable and open as you want her to be. It turns out that these situations are quite common.

The reasons some women behave in this way could be due to psychologically damaging events from her past (probably being sexually abused as a child), her own self-image and social pressures. She feels that performing certain sex acts does not match her self-image. Since young she is being told that if women enjoy sex too much, they will be called "sluts".

What should you do when you come across such situations?

Because this is an emotional issue, it will be difficult to resolve this with a logical answer/argument. This does not mean you cannot be honest about your feelings. You can tell her that you are willing to please her because you feel very intimate with her and you do not think it is wrong to expect her to want to please you. The important thing here is not to put any pressure on her to comply with your desire.

There is high chance that when you tell her you want something that she is not giving you, she will test you. Women have this in-built instinct to test guys to see if you really love them or if you are just trying to get them into bed. She may says things like - "Maybe we should break up and you patch up with one of your ex-girlfriends that could sexually satisfy you. " The proper response to such test is to assure her that you only love her.

The next step is to get her to work together with you to resolve the issue. You can say things like - "How are we going to work together as a couple so we both feel good and get what we want." You need to listen carefully because she will probably give you some subtle hints about what she needs from you in order to get what you want. She may tests you again for a few times by asking you to find other women that can satisfy your needs. As always, give her the same assurance that she is the only woman you love.

You just have to be patient so as not to make her feel pressurized. You should relax and try it gently now and then (but not too often). Stay calm, patient and loving.

When she is totally sure that she is more important than the sex acts you want, she will start to work with you to resolve the issue. Gradually, she will come to the conclusion that she is a "good girl" by pleasing her man.

>>> What You Should Have To Attract Women  

There is a distinct male trait women are naturally programmed to react to, a trait all men are born to have, but regrettably a trait that is now being subdued by societal and cultural conditioning.

That trait is called "personal authority" and it is the essence of maleness--an essence that is being denigrated and suppressed by all the wimps, wusses, and girlie men who are scared of the responsibility it carries.

Women need men to be in the lead within the relationship, who can take care of them, who set standards for them, who can offer a sense of stability and security.

Most men today look for women to show the way, and do everything that is the opposite of personal authority. They complain. They start arguments. They are too concerned about what others think. They are incredibly insecure. They have weak, damaged self images. They have entitlement mentalities. They are searching for someone else to take care of them, and worse yet, these kinds of males (not men) are everywhere.

What you have to realize about women is this: they have their time washed out again and again by men with no personal authority at all, and so in despair they quickly move on. They do not hang around to see if you develop it, or if you are slow to show it.

Not only must you possess personal authority, she must perceive you to have personal authority, else she will move on quickly. Women are extremely pissed off with all the girlie men they bump into, and have zero tolerance for them.

Personal authority is the lynchpin to attraction. You see, women love men who are passionate about what they do, who are excited about it, and who want to share. It is not the specific topic she is necessarily interested in, it really is your enthusiasm for it. She wants to see you light up and switch into character on something you are knowledgeable and passionate about so she can experience what I call CME- Charismatic Male Energy.

Details about what you do are very important to women because it excites their mind, and most men do not do that. So next time she asks, use it as an opportunity to get excited to be passionate, to be fun and allow her to get excited with you. That leads to attraction, both long term and short term.

>>> The Seldom Mentioned Truth About Attraction 

One of the most difficult feelings for a man to cope with is not anger, sadness, or depression. It is SHYNESS.

Why is shyness the cause of anger and sadness? Well, it is because shyness HINDERS us from getting what we desire.

When a man is shy, he does not dare to approach the women he likes. He just keeps to himself, drowning in self-pity and fear.

Why do some men so prone to give into their shyness? It is because before making any attempt to approach women some men start to imagine all kinds of negative possibilities Inside their mind they picture women rejecting them and laughing at them while blocking out the positive thoughts of possibly succeeding in their attempts.

This SHYNESS acts as a defense mechanism in SHIELDING them from experiencing those unpleasant outcomes!

But the problem is that if we do not take the chances, we will get NO CHANCES!

Shyness comes from not wanting to be subjected to the opinions of others, usually because:

(1) They think other will always view them negatively.

(2) They have inferiority complex and feel vulnerable.

It is even worse when interacting with a beautiful girl because if a good-looking girl rejects us, we will feel that it must be because of our UGLINESS, correct?

So what is the solution?

The only way to overcome shyness is to cultivate positive behaviors and thought patterns that can lead to a better outcome.

One must learn to grab hold of opportunities as they come and to take the necessary action.

One must build up self-confidence so that he is not easily sway by the view of others.

One must learn to see both the positive as well as the negative outcomes, and strive to improve the chances for positive outcomes.

Besides shyness, I believe another important reason for the lack of success with women is not making enough effort to approach women.

Here are the 4 excuses that we sometimes use for not being able to get a girlfriend:

(1) "I do not know what to say to her"

(2) "She may already have a boyfriend"

(3) "I am scared"

(4) "It was not the right moment" (she was seated quite far away from me, she was talking on the phone, a friend came just before I approached etc...)

But, I am very sure all these are not valid reasons. The main reason for inaction is because that you do not want to KEEP YOUR OWN PROMISES.

Most people can only keep their words in working situation or if there is a risk for not doing it. Organizations have more powers to force people to honor their words and do what they have to do. But there is comparatively little power on people to keep their promises in other situations?

You heard about a guy who first met his new girlfriend in the subway. You get excited and motivated, because you believe this can happen to you too. You believe you deserve this like anyone else and you say to yourself: "The next day I will walk up to the next sexy girl I meet in the subway!"

On the following morning, when waiting for the train on your way to work place you see this stunning beauty and you really want to get to know her even though she is a stranger. But then, you realize that she appears "in a bad mood", like "she looks like she wants to be alone" and you do not want "to run the risk of being late" believing after all "there is still another chance and you can see her again tomorrow".

These self-invented excuses cause you to pass up the chance to approach her. You have kept your words to your employer but you fail to honor the promises for yourself. This is the main cause for not achieving the desired level of freedom, enjoyment and success with women.

When you begin keeping your own promises and consistently act on them, miracles will start to happen. Every frustration, unhappiness and disappointment in life is because most of the time we fail to keep our own promises about what we should do. On the other hand, every success and enjoyment is the result of following our hearts and keeping our own promises.

Approaching women is not just about overcoming the fear of rejection, having the right opening conversation or doing things right. It is being honest to yourself and to act on what you desire. If you want her, then keep your words and give yourself the opportunity to get her. She may give you a cold shoulder, but all that matters is at least you have done yourself some justice in making an attempt rather than regretting later for inaction.

The bottom line is KEEPING YOUR OWN PROMISES has a great impact to everything in life and dating women!

>>> A little Known Sex Secret That Women Wish Their Men Knew

You probably have seen it in movies or heard some women talking about how they enjoy it. Erotic spanking is probably one of the most socially acceptable forms of sexual acts. Playful spanking (which involves sensually smacking, hitting or slapping a person's buttocks or thighs) gives quick shocks of stimulation and increases arousal.

Here is how to spank to make your sex life fun for you and her:

(1) Tune yourself into the mood by reading or watching erotic stuff

(2) There is a need to have a constant feedback between the person doing the spanking and the one receiving it. Each person has different comfort level in wanting how hard to be spanked.

(3) You need to be careful in which areas of the body to spank. Choose only those parts of the body which is fleshy such as buttocks, thighs and backs of the calves. You should not spank those fragile body parts, bony areas, joints, organs, spine and kidneys.

(4) You can try different positions to see which one she is comfortable with. You can get her to lie down on your lap or to bend over a bed, chair or table.

(5) You should use what you have at your disposal or be creative in enriching the experience. You can press your tongue, lips against her body. Try running a feather on the entire back side or some light scratching in circles or straight line motion to create some ticklish sensation.

(6) You can start with gentle patting then slowly harder and after a while switch back to softer spanking and later harder again. After a hard slap, ease up a bit by licking on the places being spanked, lightly rubbing them, kissing them before you spank again. While doing this you can also whisper sweet things in her ears or talk dirty or even masturbate her.

(7) You can consider role playing. The "teacher" spanking his "naughty student". The "doctor or nurse" spanking the "patient" for not taking her medicine.

>>> How can I Make Her Ejaculate? 

Few days ago, when browsing a sexuality forum site, I came across this question - How can I make my girl squirt? It is a very interesting question because there is so much half truths, myth, and doubt mixed in with the truth about this delightful part of female sexual response.

You may be wondering if women are capable of female ejaculation or what is commonly known as squirting or gushing and why is it that many women have never done it. Let us begin by looking at some of the myths and nonsense out there about female ejaculation, and clear up some of the things men have been asking about.

Is it true that squirting is some kind of weird thing that you can only see in porn movies?

Indeed, the act of squirting can be often seen in porn movies. However, female ejaculation is real and is not something made up by anyone. It is a natural part of female sexuality and most women who have ever ejaculated look upon it as an overwhelmingly fantastic sexual experience. Female ejaculation can happen during or before orgasm But the fact is about porn movies - it is a world full of exaggerations and fake acts. In certain scenes, women may be urinating.

Women that squirt are actually urinating, right?

Well, squirting and urinating are two different things. Female ejaculation is not urine. It is a fluid that comes from the kidneys passing through the para-urethral glands (often referred to as the female "prostrate glands" or G-spot area) is a bit like the male fluid that carries sperm but without the sperm content. This fluid is clear in color, no smell or has a slightly sweet scent, very unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you normally see when a woman is "wet" or has an orgasm. This thicker and heavier fluid is actually the vaginal discharge which lubricates and cleans up the vaginal walls as it oozes out during sexual arousal.

However, one ought to take note here is that unlike men, women can ejaculate and urinate at the same time, so it is better for women to urinate first before doing any stimulation of her pleasure points down there. Now, let us get to the part that I understand a lot of guys are most interested in - How to make YOUR sex partner experience female ejaculation? Let me first caution you here. Once you train a woman to ejaculate, there is a high likelihood that she will want to keep on doing it quite frequently when you make love. As cool as that can seem to you right now, some women can give off pretty a great amount, and it can make a good mess. So you might require to begin keeping towels nearby the bed, and rest her down on top of them before you begin.

Okay, here is how this can be done:

1. Do not Be Disappointed if not much fluid comes out and need not be FREAKED OUT if a huge amount does come gushing out. Different women ejaculate different amounts-- from a little trickle to a major outburst. One is not better than the other, it is only a function of her anatomy.

2. Delay Her Orgasm

The longer you delay her orgasm, the better the chances that you will be successful in making her squirt. This means a lot of foreplay and sensual touching.

3. Make Her Come With A "Blended Orgasm".

After delaying her orgasm for a long time, she will have built up a great deal of fluid in her para-urethral (Skene's) glands. When you do make her come, you want to build it unhurriedly and then bring her over the edge quickly using a "blended orgasm" - stimulating both her clitoris and G-spot.

There are a few different ways to make sure that you get her to come hard and quick with a blended orgasm when the moment is right, and using one of these methods is the surest way to do the trick.

So, the only part left is-- what is the best way to stimulate her to get to female ejaculation?

4. Use One of These Proven Female Ejaculation Positions

Some women ejaculate easily from many different positions, and they will certainly have remarkable results with all three of these positions. Other women might only respond to one or two of them. Usually one of the first two will work very well.

The first, which is often very effective, is to use your tongue on her clitoris.

The key is to find a rhythm that drives her wild. What you are looking for is an amount of direct stimulation to the tip of the clitoris that is just beyond what she can comfortably deal with. You need to maintain a lot of mental and emotional connection with her while you do this so that you can reassure her that she can be still and that she can "take it." You want to go just past her edge.

When you finally tell her it is alright to let go, you might have to hold her hips still with your weight to keep her from squirming right off the bed.

The key to make this method work is to insert a finger and massage her g-spot at the same time. Get started with some lubricant or cream. The Nipple and Clitoris Stimulating Gel is fantastic as it heightens sensitivity around the vaginal area and it also makes it easier to insert your fingers into her vagina. You can in fact feel the glands fill up behind the g spot as the area swells beneath your fingers.

The second method works even more often and most women will react very powerfully to it. The key is the hand position and the movement. Rest her down on her back, and have her raise her legs up in the air, knees bent. Make a "hook" with your middle finger or both middle and ring-finger. Put your finger/s inside of her, pointing up towards her belly. In this position, you can then place your palm across the top of her vagina and her clitoris.

Applying pressure with the palm across her clitoris, the motion is NOT in-and-out, but rather, up-and-down. As the fingers go up and down against the g-spot, the palm brushes up and down on the clitoris.

NOTE: Use a LOT of lube for this, particularly between the palm and vulva.

After delaying her orgasm as long as possible, you want to use this motion quickly and firmly. Again, this will perhaps get her past the edge of the amount of pleasure she is accustomed to dealing with, and you may have to encourage her verbally, and help her by holding her hips down so that she does not squirm right off the bed. The final method is a bit more of a trick, but can be even more fun because it involves intercourse.

Have her position herself on top of your penis, but facing away, towards your feet. She can be on her knees, but it may be more effective if she squats over you, and then leans back on her palms so that you are penetrating her at an angle to bump into the G Spot. After that you use one or both hands to stimulate her clitoris. When she feels ready to ejaculate, you may have to withdraw to unblock the duct.

The good news is that in terms of the "technical" and physical aspects of it, this is pretty much all you will ever require to know if you want to get a woman to experience female ejaculation.

>>> Get Her Wet Using Only Three Fingers 

In this article, I am going to discuss about giving your women great sexual pleasure through clitoral orgasm using your fingers. I am going to elaborate here on how you can just use three of your fingers to stimulate her. However, this action has to come together with other ways of stimulation. That is you need to spend some time on foreplay in order to be effective. You are supposed to start from the top first before you reach for her lower body in order to build up her tension as you gradually "warm her up".

What is clitoris and where is it located? The clitoris is a small bud-like organ that can easily be found by getting to the opening of the vagina and running your finger upward between the labia, (or lips) of the vagina until you come up to a small round protrusion.

To put it plainly, the clitoris is located in a straight line above the vaginal opening, roughly one to two inches above the opening in most women. More often than not, the clitoris is soft and flaccid, however as she gets more and more sexually aroused and approaches climax her clitoris will inflate and grow harder and harder (just like the erection of the penis). The spot you need to stimulate during Intercourse is actually located anywhere from one to two inches ABOVE where you would normally be thrusting and penetrating your lover. By now you should realize that most effective way to stimulate the clitoris is not coming from the penis but from other forms of contact. This is one of numerous reasons why the majority of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse. Lets look at how we are going to push this magic button in the correct ways - the primary natural tools you have to work with are listed in order of importance below... they are:

1. Hands and Fingers

2. Lips and Tongue

3. Your Genitals

Look at the order they are being listed! They are in that order of sequence for a reason! Use them in the order listed above. The male member is the WORST method to try clitoral stimulation. A woman wants on average of about 30 minutes of nonstop copulation to attain orgasm during intercourse. The normal guy thrusting his organ with the intent on making his partner achieve orgasm will last anywhere from 3 to 5 minutes prior to ejaculation. As you can see here, the numbers are not in your or her favor; for the reason that you are more likely to arrive at the point of no return "Discharge Your Load" long before she's even been near to her point of orgasm. Here is how to get her to reach the stage of orgasm heaven. The first big requirement to giving her a clitoral orgasm is getting her as "physically aroused and turned on" as you can before you even get on the way to her clitoris! The way to do that is through the way you kiss her and by being a master of Foreplay. There are several ways that can give women not one clitoral orgasm, but MULTIPLE clitoral orgasms. Let's talk about one of my preferred and most reliable techniques: The Basic Two and Three Finger Split Method.

Here is how to do it: First make sure you are laying along side her, face to face so that you can keep on kissing and/or sucking her nipples as well as engaging her with the other areas of your body as you continue to stimulate her erogenous zones in the ways most appropriate for her. As you do, allow your hands to slowly and gently move below her belly toward her vaginal area.

 Let your hands massage the entire vulva and labia. Pay attention to how wet she is. Have her open her legs wider to allow you access to the innermost aspects of her vulva. With her legs spread, with you lying on your left, hook your right leg over and around her right leg. This will help you to stabilize her position and makes sure you do not lose contact with the right spot after you hit upon it. As you go on with your foreplay up at the top, allow the fingers of your right hand to glide down between her labia to her vaginal opening. Using your middle and index fingers, slide your fingers upward from the vaginal opening between the inner labia until you feel a small bump. That bump is the clitoris.

Clitoral size varies very much from woman to woman. Some are quite large, some are extremely small. After you have found the clitoris, you go into the Three Finger Split. Press the labia on either side of the clitoris with pointer finger and little finger of your right hand. This should leave your middle finger exactly on the clitoris. As gently as you can, start to apply a small, circular stimulation directly to the clitoris. Your goal is not to simply rub or stimulate the clitoris. Your task here is to "explore" her clitoris, to sense it in order to become intimately familiar with it. Important things to keep in mind here. Carry on stimulating her clitoris with small circular movement. Pay attention to how hard her clitoris starts to become.

Try applying different pressures and tempos/speeds. As soon as you hit upon the right pace of speed and the required degree of pressure, her clitoris will start getting harder and harder. Do pay very close attention to her sexual response so that you can later determine which particular spot on her clitoris that can give her maximum pleasure. To recap, here is how you should do:

1. Anchor your partner's right leg with your right leg by hooking it over and around her.

2. Rub gently her vaginal area mons, labia, etc. before sliding your fingers downward to her vaginal opening.

3. Locate her vaginal opening with the tips of your index and pointer fingers.

4. Slide your fingers directly upward along and between the inner lips of her opening until you find her clitoris.

5. Spread your fingers apart so that your index finger is holding her left inner labia (lip) and your small fingers are holding her right labia (lip) away from the clitoris.

6. Your middle finger ought to be directly over the clitoris.

7. Begin light but circular strokes on and around the surface of the clitoris.

8. Pay attention to how the clitoris reacts to your touch.

9. As the clitoris becomes more stimulated and aroused it will swell and become harder and harder.

10. Use your sense of touch to find out the best position, stroke, pressure and timing for your partner. Let her responding clitoris be your guide.

11. As you get nearer to her climax, hold on tighter with your legs. She's going to start bucking like a wild horse!

>>> Does Size Really Matter In Sex? 

In a world of super size cars, extra large servings for McDonald meals and non-stop effort to build the world's next tallest building, it is hard to stop thinking about whether bigger is actually better for everything. When comes to the ability to satisfy women, men places a lot of pride on the size of their penis. So, does penis size really matter? The reality is that most of the time size doesn't matter. In fact, I have some women telling me, too big a size causes painful sex. Other women aren't shy to say that lovemaking skill is more important than size.

Rather than relying on hearsays and the hundreds of junk mails that try to sell you penis enlargement products, let's look at what research tells us about whether penis size matter?

A survey of 655 women between the ages of 19-49 asked about whether penis length and girth matter. The findings revealed:

(a) 18% said penis length was very important, 22% said penis girth was very important (b) 57% said penis length was somewhat important (c) 25% said penis length was unimportant, 25% said penis girth was unimportant

A major flaw of this study was that it did not specify the optimal size. Therefore, women who felt penis girth matters a lot may have different ideas of what the ideal penis girth is. The assumption could be bigger is better, but this is not confirmed by the study. Other more specific studies try to find out about women's preference between length and girth, still cannot come to any conclusion about preferable size.

OK, let's come out with some scientific facts and figures to put to rest some of the claims and myths about whether or not penis size matters and what is normal for the majority of men. A worldwide study of over 40 independent penis size research projects undertaken since 1942 has come up with a general penis size guideline. Feedback from over 11,000 survey participants put the average erect size of the adult penis is between 5.5 inches to 6.2 inches in length and 4.7 inches to 5.1 inches in girth. If you happen to be one of the millions who are outside of the average range size in length and girth, please do not worry. You can still make the most of what you have. The following are some best sex positions that make every man feel "big" irrespective of his penis size.

(1) The Snake Position

Get your women to lie down flat on her belly. Put a pillow under her hips so that her buttocks ache upward. Keep your knees bent and position your genital just behind her bottom. Gently spread her thighs just enough to allow penetration and slide your way in. Be careful to keep your weight off her body during intercourse. If you want to get the feel of tight fit, simply hold her thighs together as you penetrate her.

(2) The Doggie Position

This is quite similar to the snake position. The difference is instead of lying on her belly, she has to kneel down, her back bend forward so that her buttocks are raised upward. Same as above, you penetrate her from behind.

(3) The Rabbit Ears Position

Get her to lie on her back, spread her thighs and draw her legs up so that her knees are quite close to her chest. Put a pillow under her buttocks which will place her vagina at an angle that is suitable for penetration. To keep her knees in place, you can rest her legs on your shoulders as you thrust forward.

(4) The V-Formation Position

With her lying flat on her back, you position yourself between her thighs and enter her as you normally would from a kneeling position. Next raise her legs and then spread them apart until they form a "V". This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris. Free one of your hands by allowing one of her legs to rest on your shoulder and stimulate her clitoris until she orgasms.

==>> Please note that so far this has all applied to SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.  Many women prefer ORAL SEX, which has different preferences for achieving orgasm.  Women who prefer Oral sex usually do not want a "jawbreaker" in their mouth.  They usually prefer a smaller penis, especially for extended performances.

While it is true that society tends to place a great deal of importance on size, the truth is that a penis of any size can bring a woman to orgasm. Irrespective of size, foreplay is still needed to "warm" her up. Of course, the most important thing is the strength of the relationship with your woman. If she feels loved and appreciated and has strong feelings for you, just words and touching can easily turn her on/ If she dislikes you, even you can have elephant-sized penis and superb lovemaking skills, she will not respond to whatever you do. On the contrary, her feelings towards your gestures/actions will make her feel been molested or raped. 

>>> Where To Locate Her Sexually Sensitive Points 

Most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. We all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore during lovemaking. Do you know she has pleasure sensors all over her body beyond the usual areas (vagina, breasts and butt)? Getting her into the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected pleasure points. Incorporating the act of touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely "add sparks" to your relationship.

Let's start exploring her from top to bottom:

(1) Hair Women take a lot of pride in their hair. They like men to use their hands to stroke their hair. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the back of her neck.

(2) Lips If you know how to manipulate her lips just through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

(3) Ears Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the ear lobes of your woman will make her feel special.

(4) Back of her neck Once you can get to this area, place a few light kisses there. There is also a good place to start giving her some sensual massage that she can find it hard to resist.

(5) Collar bone When you begin to undress your woman, you should take the time to kiss and lick her collar bone. The reason for this is because it sends the feel good hormones to her brain.

(6) Wrists This may comes as a surprise to most guys but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers.

(7) Palms of her hands Tracing your finger along her palm will give her some delightful shivers. This is a good way to start stimulating her and gradually bring her into the mood when out on the street.

(8) Breasts The breasts are very sexually sensitive such that gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Depending on how sensitive the woman is, after stroking the nipples for a while, you can see them get hardened and erected just like penis.

(9) Pelvis Kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she begs for more.

(10)Buttocks Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of their buttocks. But some women like having their butts lick and suck.

(11)Behind her knees Most men don't know that this area is quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirts while both of you are in a public place will make her ready for action once you reach home.

(12)Inner thighs If you want to tease your girl before having sex, just focus on kissing and rubbing her inner thighs will turn her on.

(13)Feet Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can be quite ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be quite pleasant for her.

(14)Vagina/Clitoris The clitoris (which is a small protrusion just above the opening of the vagina) can be stimulated by using the tongue or finger. When a woman is aroused, blood will flow to the clitoris, making the protrusion more pronounced. In the vagina, there is the so-called G-spot that can produce intense sexual feelings when stimulated. It is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside (near to the underside of her stomach).

These are the pleasure points on a woman's body that can turn her on. Not every woman is the same. Some women have some preference areas that they like to be stimulated while others have some no-go areas. As you explore, you will learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.

The critical thing to remember is when it comes to sex, every woman is different. You can do everything right. You can make all the right moves with your fingers, lips and tongue and still not able to drive her crazy.

There are 2 things you should take note:

(1) Pay attention When you try to find out about her pleasure points that are applicable to her, you shouldn't just do it mechanically. You need to listen to changes in her breathing, the way her skin softens and her muscles tighten, the way her blood flushes beneath her skin in her face and breasts, the way she moans.

(2) Stay connected She needs to feel connected in order to feel relaxed with you. Look up at her and make eye contact once in a while. Stop and tell her how much you are enjoying it or how hot you think it is. Reach up and stroke the side of her face and hair. Take her hands and give them a gentle squeeze. You don't have to do all these things and you don't have to do them all the time. Just give her a few signs every few minutes and watch what happen immediately afterwards. First, her body will relax into what you are doing and then very quickly she will have a much more intense orgasm.

==>> Eng Hou, owner of Sex-Tips-Site.com and Getting-Chicks.com.  Want to find out more on how to spice up your sex life?  "Like most guys, I'm interested in sexual matters. Do you want to find out more on how you can increase the "flame of passion" in your sex life? Do take a look at http://www.sex-tips-site.com/..."  Eng Hou is a WUVING.com recommended Relationship Expert.  Check him out!

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