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Look around just about anywhere you go today and you'll see a smiling Western man arm in arm or hand in hand with a beautiful Asian woman. Interracial relationships and marriages are certainly common today but is there something particularly complimentary about Western men and Asian women?

Maybe you, like me have been curious about how such differing cultural dynamics and traditions are resulting in wonderful and fulfilling love relationships. Seeing more and more Western guys with beautiful Asian girls shopping together in the Mall or on romantic dinners with their lovely Asian wife led me to investigate further out of pure scientific curiosity only.

I talked with Filipino women and Thai women living in the U.S. and in the Philippines and Thailand so I could get to the bottom of this interesting cultural exchange. What I found out made a lot of sense and helped to explain that old 'Mail order bride' term I've heard loosely thrown around. I was told that many Asian women are treated as 2nd class citizens in their own country by the male population. Many Filipino women told me how their boyfriends or husbands act as if their opinions, wants and needs didn't mean anything to them at all. Believe it or not, some of these women don't get to eat until the man has had his fill!

As these ladies told me about how they have suffered in these relationships I started to recall seeing ads for Romance Tours and Asian Women Looking for Marriage to men in foreign countries like America or in Europe and I could see now that it was not just for better economic opportunities.

Many Thai women and Filipino women were actually desperately hoping for a loving relationship that resembled the sort of partnerships they heard about in Western marriages. It's not to say that marriages in America or Europe are perfect unions but the Western model of relationships is more open and sharing and looks a lot more like a give and take partnership than witnessing an Asian wife walk 5 steps behind her husband in public.

Many Asian girls today are not willing to put up with 'the woman as silent servant' mentality of past generations. And thanks in part to Romance Tours by legitimate Introduction Service Companies these loving, caring and devoted women now know that many Western men are actively looking to meet Asian women. It's true that the Western man has come a long way and generally consults his wife or girlfriend's opinion about day to day events and many of life's challenges too. We are encouraged in our culture to treat our mate as an equal or even better and things like opening a door or taking out the trash can melt an Asian women's heart.

I've seen 1st hand how a devoted, loving Asian wife treats her Western man and things like the enjoyment in taking care of the home and her genuine concern for his comfort and happiness is an integral part of their upbringing. She'll massage your neck and rub your feet at the end of a hard day's work out of pure love and her desire to see you happy.

So the result of my investigations..? our two cultures, East and West do complement each other very well; here in the West we tend to treat women with more respect and tenderness while Asian women are taught to revere, care and dedicate themselves to their man.

I'm a believer now and once you meet and get to know some special, openhearted Filipino women or enchanting Thai women for yourself you'll be a believer too.