Turn on the TV and flip over to the fashion channel. What's on right now? A runway show in Milan or New York? Did you know that a lot of the models you are looking at on the catwalks are Russian or Ukrainian? Eastern European women have a natural beauty so it is easy to understand the popularity with the fashion industry. And their interest in modelling is simple to figure out as well - their ability to earn as a fashion model far outweighs any profession back in their homeland.
So the question is, how do you as a mere mortal male, meet Russian women?
You can meet your ideal partner on this dating site, but meeting a Russian woman can be as easy as heading out to a club in New York. With many Russian girls heading abroad to further their career, that stunning blonde you happen to be watching at the bar could have a Russian accent. If you tend to be the type of person that is completely lost for words when talking to gorgeous girls, here are a few tips to help make you feel more comfortable..
Try Saying Hello
A beautiful woman is still just a normal person, and she wants to be treated as such. It is your expectations of her that stop you from seeing her as a normal human being.. Approach her like any other man or woman.
Imagine you just got into work on Monday morning and you see a good friend. What do you say? Something like ... hi, how was your weekend or it's good to see you? So why not treat her the same way. Why not experiment with ... hi, how are you today, or good afternoon.
Yes, she may still reject you and that is part of the singles scene. But a everyday introduction will come across as more genuine and relax you if you are nervous.. Besides, what do you want her (if she wasn't interested) to say to her hot friends about you when they arrive; 'he's cute but not really my type' or 'should have heard the cheesy pickup line some wierdo tried out on me earlier'? One means you have been preselected for her friends (very powerful) and the other means you're the wierdo in the corner to avoid.
Start With The Basics
The most important skill you can learn when talking to women is to improvise in a conversation. The method is easy. Take an item from your immediate surroundings (don't be obvious about it) and build a flowing conversation around it.
The first time you try this you will probably fail. You will dedicate a lot more time planning on what to say than actually saying it. The secret is to practice at it first. Instead of slotting it directly into your pickup women toolbox, practice it in day to day life first.
Start with a good foundation, and that is getting comfortable with having a casual conversation with people you just met. Next time you are in a supermarket, say hello to the person behind the cash register (don't feel weird if it is a guy - you are just working on the basics of communication here). Next, move it up a little and then add 'how are you' to build your comfort level in talking to strangers.
Now why am I telling you to practice your communication skills on everyday people? It is because these women will not reject you when to talk to them. They are there as part of your normal every day life. And if you don't fear rejection, you will not tense up leaving you to relax and practice your communication skills. Make sense?
Improvise
Now that you can start a conversation with a stranger without thinking about it, you are ready for the next step. Pick something from your immediate environment and create a conversation around it.
At first, it will be an awkward question that you will ask; something like "have you had the salad, I was thinking of trying it out". It will feel awkward because you are spending more time thinking about what to say regarding the salad and not being present in the conversation.
But this social stumbling will pass as you become relaxed with it. Practice at every chance you get so it becomes second nature. And who knows where even a practice conversation might lead. After all, women do like to talk if they are attracted to you.
>>> How to get Russian Women to Find you Online
I read an article online the other day that mentioned the engagement of a well known DJ. The article showed a photo of them together. My first thought was 'she's hot'. But then I looked at the difference between the two of them. She's gorgeous, he is average. She's tall (she is a model), he's short. But the look she had in the shot of them together was a mix of admiration and lust.
So how do you make yourself irrestable to women?
Your answer is easy - be a real man. If a short DJ can do it, then why not you?
When dating face to face, being a man is about being an alpha male. Online dating is a little more subtle, but you still have to show her you are the man she wants to get to know above everyone else.
Show Interest
Do you fear rejection? And if you do, do you show it online by sending a very short introduction letter and see if she responds before putting in some real effort? Why? If you find a woman attractive and are genuinely interested in her, let her know it.
Think about this from her perspective for a moment. In the few weeks after she joins, she will recieve several emails from different men. Most will describe themselves clearly and show how focused they are on their personal and professional goals. Your short email will be a whisper in a noisy crowd. She will answer you if she is very attracted to you, but she might even forget to do this if she is busy replying to the men who put some real effort in. If you are attracted to her, go for it and let her deal with how she feels about you.
Don't be the guy who holds your cards to your chest before you think you have a winning hand. She probably thinks you are not genuinely interested and will move on to someone else. Most woman want a man who will lead the interaction and risk some rejection to go after what he wants.
Have Your Own Opinions
Letting her know you are serious is crucial to the success of an online romance. Being a door mat isn't. Yet it is surprising the amount of guys that will agree with anything a woman says to avoid scaring her off. Even worse is actually agreeing with what she says to gauge how she feels about a topic.
You are a man, not a mouse. Be comfortable with your opinions but receptive enough to understand other people's perspective. If you simply try and not rock the boat, she will spot that a mile away and quickly look for someone else.
Don't Be Too Available
Russian women value men who take their commitments seriously. It shows you will be a dependable father and partner who looks after his family. What this means for you is don't ignore your responsibilities just to talk to her.
You may want to talk to her a lot more, but don't be the type of man that puts off a family dinner with your parents just so you are always on the net when it is convenient for her and then proudly tell her that. Don't be the type of guy who immediately sends back text messages regardless of how busy you are.
Now I am not saying you should play hard to get. What I am saying is that you should make it clear that you have your life to lead and it does not resolve around her. Be willing to find a compromise to adjust your life to fit her in. But don't rearrange it to focus on another person.
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"Ya mechtayu vstretit zhencshiny, chtoby razdelit s ney moyu zhizn!" - "I dream to meet a woman to share my life with!"
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