"What sexual positions do really big women love?"
"How can I completely satisfy my 259 pound woman? I'm meeting her for the first time this weekend!"
This is becoming a bigger concern in the dating world.
Now that men who have always been attracted to full figured women are going on the top BBW Dating Sites and meeting big curvy women, they are asking "How do I make love with a big mama?"
A survey among married women over 40 indicated the following positions as their favorite: Missionary (man on top), 69 (mutual oral sex), Cowgirl (woman on top) and Hands On (mutual masturbation) as the top four. A survey of younger women revealed: Cowgirl, 69, Missionary and Spooning (intercourse from behind, laying on the side).
These apply to women on average, but individuals vary widely in their wants.
Jeanie, who decribes herself as a "super sized fat gal" answered the survey in this manner: "Oral sex. I love giving it and I love receiving it. I live for it. I think a lot of fat women are oral in their likes, whether it's food or sex."
There is some truth in her observation. Another respondant said: "I love oral sex. A man who would thrill me with his tongue until his face is wet with my juices would have my love for life."
This love of receiving oral pleasure is reflected by women of all sizes, ages and most cultural backgrounds. After all, only 60% of women ever achieve orgasm though sexual intercourse (some surveys are indicating an even lower percentage, some as low as 40%).
However, a reported 92% of women who have had cunnilingus (oral sex) performend on them achieve orgasms. The downside of this is that many men refuse to"eat pussy." Such willing men are in demand. As the old saying goes among sex therapists, "Men who love performing oral sex will always get a second date - and usually a yes to a marriage proposal."
Some men are worried that a BBW's size might discourage her from wanting certain positions. Unless she is athletic or has strong legs, Cowgirl may be difficult, for instance.
With intercourse, Big women prefer their man on top or from behind.
So - what positions would a Big Mama you're going to date really love? If you're too shy (and many men are) just to come out and ask her - or at least hint - then you may have to find out by exploration. If your relationship is a truly romantic one with long term in mind, then there's no rush, is there? Discovering what you both like is part of the fun.
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Judging by most of the Women of Size that I've discussed this with, I would recommend the following course of action for BBW:
First. Start with plenty of carressing and kissing. After all, there's lots to kiss and she'll really get turned on.
Second. Slowly ease into licking her thighs and vagina. The easiest position for this (other positions are hard on the neck, especially with a big woman) is 69, with you laying so that your genitals are in her face. This leaves her free to fondle and stroke your penis. If your only experience with cunnilingus is porn videos, forget what you've seen. Remember, you're not "having sex" with her, you're "making love." Take your time, starting gently, very gently. Respond to her voice and the way she moves her body under your mouth. She is probably very sensitive there. Build slowly and lick gently until she is completely satisfied.
Third. After that, finish with intercourse. Any shyness she may have had will be lessed and she'll probably tell you if she wants you on top or behind.
The positions for fulfilling lovemaking may be limited with the majority of large ladies, but what I've just described will make most BBW your undying lover for life.
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-Kate Falken
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