As a consultant with WUVING.com, I quickly learned that BBW dating is the hot relationship niche.
Here is just one success story, from Mark G. Mark is bright, articulate and candid - his story is worth reading:
I've always fallen for full figured gals. My first crush in Junior High was with a girl named Robin. She had a full round body, pretty round face with big brown eyes and black hair cut short with bangs. When she looked at me with those beautiful brown eyes I became a stuttering fool.
Although I'm not as shy with women now as then, it wasn't until a couple buddies of mine met women through online dating sites that I decided to go online, too.
I naturally went to the BBW sites.
For a year or so, I contented myself with just going on and browsing through free BBW profiles.
I met and chatted with a number of curvy women.
I learned a few things.
1. Not all dating sites are equal. The best two by far are BBW Cupid and SexyAds BBW.
2. A lot of women who post themselves online have done so because they've heard that "there are men out there who really fall in love with big women" - but they don't really believe it. Some women have spent a lifetime being verbally abused because of their size (sometimes even from boyfriends and husbands, now ex-husbands). When you tell them that you find them (through their photo) to be really attractive and (through their written profile) worth getting to know, they can't believe it.
Finally, I concluded that I would do better if I posted my own Profile online. It seemed to me that an insecure woman would believe "I've always fallen for big women" more readily if she read it first on my Profile than if I just said it in reply to her existing Profile.
And I was Right! Man, was I right. In a month after posting Profiles on BBW Cupid and SexyAds BBW, I had thousands of replies. And some of those women were drop dead gorgeous. Voluptuous women who wanted me.
Here's how I did it.
1. Photo. It's all about attraction. Almost always, it's a yes or a no from the photo. I knew that I am what I am, so I'd might as well put on a recent photo. Took it myself in the bathroom mirror, camera and all - which is common these days. All I could do is get a haircut, fresh shave and put on a new fairly conservative shirt. It worked.
2. Header and User name. I wanted to be creative but conservative. Nothing sexual - even on SexyAds - because I was looking for my True Love. Warm - but no attempt at humor.
3. Description. Yes, age, weight, height. But then I went on about what excited me in life. In the "my favorite" section of Cupid, I thought things over a bit. Putting down "Terminator" or "Iron Man" as favorite movie would have told something about me. But not something that might attract HER. I wasn't going to lie and put down "Sex and the City." But all of us have a dozen or so favorites. One of mine is "Trading Places," which I watch every time I come across it on TV - so I listed it. Turned out to be a wise choice. And when it came to the part "Describe Your Future Partner," I did so in detail. All that I yearned for...
4. Sexuality. Most dating sites don't allow overt sexual content. Whis was all right with me. SexyAds is different. But even there I didn't go overboard. Just made a quick reference to "I love 69." I knew what I was doing. We never discussed sex until after we met in person, but Juliana, now my big beautiful wife, eventually told me that the reference to 69 did grab her attention. She also told me that, even though she openly discussed her online dating search with her closest girlfriends, she never mentioned that bit. "I've got two friends who would try to steal you if they know what you love doing in bed." Don't mention 69 if you don't like doing it. But if you do - yes, put it in your profile. But subtly.
(Note from Kate: Many women, especially thirtysomething and more, don't like to admit that sexual satisfaction is part of the relationship they are seeking. Remember, 40% of women never achieve orgasm through intercourse. But 92% do achieve orgasm though cunnilingus. Even women who can achieve a climax though intercourse often find oral sex more intense. There are women in their 40's and 50's who have never achieved an orgasm at all, but yearn to do so. If you are a man who, like a client named Jim W, "goes crazy when her hot cum explodes on my tongue," be sure to mention oral sex in your profile. But, as Mark says, "subtly." Very subtly! Just throw in a quick reference to it almost as if it's not really important. And never mention it in your online chat. Don't worry - she saw it! It's always on her mind when she talks to you - and even when she thinks of you.)
5. Honesty. Throughout it all, I was honest. This really did pay off. Although Juliana had a lot more to learn about me, she happily told me that I had been truthful in my profile and our chats and that my "truthfulness" helped define me as a man. "It's why I love you, honey."
So - there are all kinds of large, big beautiful women out there looking for you. I suggest that you put your own profile online and let Her find you. Your very own Big, truly BEAUTIFUL, Woman is really out there seeking you, man. - Mark.
Want to find and meet your very own Big Beautiful Woman? Then go to BBW Dating - Big Beautiful Women - Meet Curvy Full Figured Women Follow the 3 Steps to Find Your Loving Woman! Mark did and he found Juliana!
- Kate
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