Asian Women & Caucasian Men - Dating Asian Women for White Guys

*** Vinna: "I have Asian women friends who admit that they date white guys because they have bigger equipment than Asian guys. That's not why I dated and am marrying Rick. I love him sooooo much! He is kind and loving and very protective, like a big panda bear. On our first night together I was too shy to admit that my women friends were also right about size. Rick is amazing in every way. I tell this to other women - if you want a real lover, date a white guy."

*** James: "I met Jing via your site. We were married in Zhengzhou, China on the second of September 2009. The minute that we met at the airport you could not keep us apart. We were already in love via our letters but when our eyes met it was love at first sight! We spent part of our honeymoon in Beijing/Zhengzhou and the ancient Chinese capitol of Kaifeng. She tries very hard to make me happy as I do the same to make her happy. I fell in love with her sweet laugh and her kind and considerate manner. Jing is truly heaven sent. My family and hers are thrilled with our marriage. Please enjoy the photograph. God bless!!! Thank you!!" - James and Jing

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>>> Dating Asian Women For White Guys. 

There is one thing that you absolutely must have if you want to date Asian women. In fact, if you don't have it, then it's almost certain that you will fail in dating any Asian girl. What is it? We will get back to that, but first let's talk a little bit about why you would want to date an Asian woman as a white guy.

Many guys have a thing for Asian girls, some even have what is called 'Yellow Fever' or they will ONLY date Asians. Luckily for them, there are plenty of Asian women who feel the same about white guys. You just have to go to any major city in the US, Australia or elsewhere to see the many white guy Asian girl couples. Things seem to be working out well for both.

Asian women are very feminine and I think that's why so many guys go crazy over them. I don't mean to slander other girls, but many men feel like feminism and equal opportunity has gone too far and that many white girls are acting and behaving too masculine. Not so with Asian girls! Asian women have to be the most feminine women on the planet. That's not to say they are weak though, put that thought out of your head right away! The submissive housewife stereotype is just a stereotype exactly, but it's true that Asian women know that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar!

So, back to the first promise. What is the one thing you need to have to date an Asian woman? The answer is: Confidence!

Wow, what a shocker! Women like confident men, but let me tell you why it's so important to be confident in dealing with Asian women. Asian girls are often worried that white guys won't be able to appreciate what they have to offer. They give you love, affection and lets you be in control, but in return they want a man that can take charge, be in control, keep her happy, safe and entertained. Some white guys who are used to more assertive white women, may find it weird to have to take charge like this in a relationship with an Asian girl. But that's the way it is. Don't ask her what she wants to do, better suggest something to do and ask her if she wants to join.

>>> Why do Thai girls go for white guys? 

Thai-Farang relationships are a common a sight in Bangkok. The number of interracial relationships in Thailand seems to grow every year. Even in the outskirts and suburbian area you can almost be certain of seeing some foreign guy hand in hand with his Thai girlfriend. So why is it that so many Thai girls seem to go for a Western man instead of a Thai guy that she would have a lot more in common with? Most foreigners in Thailand don't even really understand Thai culture, don't speak the language and don't understand Thai women! Are Thai women really attracted to foreign men or is it really about money?

There are in fact many reasons why a Thai girl would go for a foreigner. Let's take a look at some reasons that I think are common. Most Thai ladies I have talked often mention money, fidelity, physical chemistry and worldliness. Some may be only interested in one of those or all of them, but it's a good starting point in figuring out why Thai women end up dating white guys.

I've found that most middle-class Thai women who date western guys almost always say that they enjoy dating them because they feel like they are respected more and have more freedom of expression. She is tired of dating Thai men who expect her just to be a pretty, cute wife void of any personality and opinion. She enjoys the chance to express herself and try new things without being judged in a rigid Thai society. She is looking for an educated, intelligent foreign man who will show her the world and bring her along with him as they explore life together. You meet her at a trendy café or bar, maybe in a hotel lobby or even on the internet, but she isn't going to chase you. Impress her by showing your drive and ambition without bragging.

As you see, there are many reasons why a Thai girl would want to date a foreign guy and money is definitely not the only reason. So, if you want to meet a nice Thai girl, think about who you are and what kind of lady would be attracted to you. Are you the type happy to settle for a quiet countryside life or are you looking for a partner not only in bed but someone who can keep her own in a conversation. Do you want a string of flings with girls from Kao San clubs? Regardless, get out of the bars and gogos and start exploring the other side of Thailand.  

>>> Step by Step to Dating Asian Girls. 

Can't get enough of petite Asian girls? Well buddy, you are not the only one. Don't deny your attraction to Asian women, go for it, you won't regret it! I've dated Asian women almost exclusively for the last 5 years and it's been the best time of my life. I thought I would share a step by step guide to dating Asian girls, read on! Here's my three step guide to find, meet and date.

Step 1. Meet Asian Girls

Ok, so if you want to date Asian girls then you need to meet them. That's a no-brainer. Now, if you live in California that isn't going to be a problem. Just head up around UCLA or Cornell campus and do your thing. But what if you don't live those places? What you got to do is find out where Asians go. Any decent size city should have an Asian area or Chinatown. Always worth going for some Ramen noodles you now. Or you could check out international student organizations if you are in that age range +- a few years. Lot's of Asian women go to the US to study every year and would love to make some local friends.

Step 2. Attracting Asian Girls

Here's where many guys mess up. Asian women are not the exotic, delicate lotus flower some of you nerds may think they are. They are girls like any other girls. Which also means that she is not likely to impressed by your two word Chinese vocabulary, particularly not if she is Japanese. Just do your thing. If you don't know what 'your thing' is then I suggest you get a good pick-up book from some PUA guru like David D, Johnny Wolf or Mystery. They're all good.

Step 3. Dating Asian Girls

Dating an Asian woman is different than dating a white/black/Hispanic girl. Asian women are for the most part raised quite conservatively with traditional gender roles. That means, she expects you as the man to take some responsibility.

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*** Kiri: "My first husband was abusive, verbally and physically. I swore that I would never marry again. But I found William on an online dating site. He loves me almost too much. Almost. And I love him with all my heart. Yes, on our first night together I was a little afraid. But he was so very tender. Even though he was, you know, so much bigger down there than my first husband, he was gentle like a Hollywood movie hero. William is my hero for life."

*** Jay: "Her name is Nima and she has completely turned my life around. I went though a real down and angry time for a while. Well, I'll admit it, because I know there's a lot of guys out there in the same boat. An ex girlfriend began spreading the word that I had a small penis. Other girlfriends had teased me, but this one, Marsha, was really nasty about it. Got a lot of cruel talk going. Got to the point where I was getting angry at women in general - not like me at all. Then a buddy of mine told me I should date Asian woman. I told him that was a racist statement - almost lost my final friend over that. But he convinced me to try online dating. That's how I met Nima. Her picture showed an absolutely beautiful Asian girl and I was head over heels. We met through webcam chat and eventually we met in person. I was nervous about our first night together. But it was awesome! Her small delicate hands on me and her shy, trusting eyes made me her loving servant forever. She's become my lifelong love."

*** Ming: "I have found my future husband here. We met on 13th November in China. After we met we feel that we are the only one for each other and we can not live without each other. Now we are planning to get married soon. I think if you are honest and loyal for love you will find the right one for you. He is a nice boy and we will love each other forever. Good luck to everybody." - Ming

>>> Approaching Asian Women    

Ok, so you want to know how best to approach Asian women? Many guys do, because Asian girls are sometimes pretty hard to read. That's a cultural thing. Asians in general don't like to reveal too much emotion, so the signals they send out tend to be very subtle and that can be hard to read. Asian girls are just not very straightforward. Even if she wants to jump your bones, that doesn't mean she is going to show it.

Most western guys have no clue as to how to approach an Asian woman. Asian women sometimes seem serious or unresponsive. Do not act like that drunken buffoon in front of them, as Asian women look for boyfriend material when they see a man. They definitely do not want to hook up with someone who is going to embarrass them in front of their friends. Be serious about her. Pay attention. That's not saying be boring, but just tone it down a bit.

Ask any guy who is successful with Asian women and he will tell you to be patient. Don't try to call her or sex her on the first date. It can take time. They are just not as sexually confident as white girls. Remember that she most likely had quite strict parents and there was no sneaking out at night. She may even be a virgin. She wants you to know that she isn't easy.

So that's the score. Be serious and have patience. That's the most important thing to approaching Asian girls. 

>>> Meet Thai Women Online - Three Tips 

Online dating is fast becoming the preferred way for foreign men and Thai women to meet. If you are interested in meeting Thai women, you should for them. The best way is to set up an account on a Thai dating site, fill out your profile without any typical cliches or nonsense and then wait for Thai women to find your profile. They WILL come along and that is when you should contact them.

Pretty women are popular everywhere and that's true online for Thai girls as well. Women who have attractive pictures get tons of emails from guys every day. Chances are one of these guys look better than you, so you have to be a little creative. Being a little laid back, a little more passive, may actually work with these girls, it worked for me. Keeps her wondering why I don't pursue her as much as the others. Anyway, do what comes natural to you. You have to be lucky to get your email opened and you have to be different.

What's funny about online dating profiles is of course that a lot of them are full of hot air and some are complete garbage. That's true for meeting Thai women online as well. Many times the girls will lie about their age, weight and income among other things.

Ok, if you are starting in the Thai online dating world, here are a few tips:

1) You will want a free email account similar to the name of your dating profile. Once you have had contact with a Thai girl, you can go the next step and continue on online chat. Never reveal too much online, you never know if your neighbor decided to pose as a Thai girl for laughs! A separate email account also keeps your regular email free of all the messages and notifications you will get from a site like ThaiLoveLinks (and you will get many with a decent profile).

2) If you plan on chatting online, do yourself a favor and buy a decent webcam. This will help you present yourself better. Remember, you are trying to date someone who may be thousands of miles away and she needs to know something about you. People do judge on image and particularly online when that is often all there is. If you have a webcam, more women will also be willing to use theirs and that is obviously good for you as well. But remember that webcams show what you are doing, so if you are chatting with many women, you will likely get busted! Thai girls know when you do this (because they in turn chat with more than one guy!).

3) Stay away from 'crazies'. If a Thai girl has written something in her profile like: "I am crazy girl" or "I do crazy things", discard her as a potential girlfriend or even date. As silly as it sounds, these girls may indeed be crazy and a lot of trouble and you could find someone a lot nicer. Go for normal Thai women when dating online.

>>> Tips For Finding Your Asian Wife Online. 

If you are looking for an Asian woman to marry, then you are probably thinking about using one of the many online dating sites. I know many happy couples who met online. I think most people realize today that online dating is just another way to meet people and putting a profile is something a lot of Asian women do. Online dating has given a lot of Asian girls from countries such as Thailand or the Philipines a chance to look for a future partner from the comfort and security of their own home. I've known many more traditional women who are not bold enough to go to bars or clubs, but who would still like to meet a Western gentleman and the internet has given them that possibility.

If you want to increase your chance of success with beautiful Asian women, here are a few tips: Online dating is of course all about your profile. We all know how short attention span we have online and how quick all of us can be to dismiss someone based on small imperfections, so make your online profile as good as it can be. The first thing to do is get some good pictures up. You should have one head shot with you smiling and preferably a few personal pictures showing you doing something social, adventerous or interesting. If you have a cool car, then it doesn't hurt to show it as well.

When you talk to Asian women online, make sure to be honest about what you are looking for and try to go for women who want the same things you do. If you are looking for a wife, go for a woman closer to your age and not the 22 year old looking for a sugar daddy. About age difference, it's probably best to look for a girl not more than 10-15 years younger than you. Of course it's possible to find a younger girl and have a good relationship, particularly with Filipina girls, but it's more likely to work out if you both have some experience in life. 

>>> Why Marry a Filipina Girl? 

As an American married to a Filipina woman I often get friends and family ask me about what it was that made me marry a Filipina woman and not an American woman. The answer is of course that I love her and she loves me, but it's true that I did look outside the country for a wife. You see, I was married for 11 years in the US already and after a divorce I found that as a middle aged man in America, you are sort of expected to just fade away quietly.

Back in the states I found myself limited to only dating other divorced middle aged women, who were in many cases quite bitter and disillusioned it seemed about men and dating in general. You can only listen to enough complaints about their exhusbands for so long. Most hadn't kept in shape either. Yet, this seemed to be the norm. Sure, it's ok to date younger attractive women if you have money and fame, but try doing so as an average middle aged American male! The looks I got from older women just from smiling at a pretty girl!

Fast forward a few years. A friend of mine had invited me to spend a few weeks diving in the Philippines. Married to a Filipina and running a small business there, he was happy and living a life he truly enjoyed. I booked a ticket and arrived in Manila with hopes of a break from the boring life I had back home. Little did I know the Philippines would make such an impression.

The first thing I noticed was how different life is in the Philippines. Sure, the Filipinos are quite poor, but they much richer in other areas than Americans. I was taken back by how happy and friendly the people seemed. There always seemed to be someone chatting, smiling, laughing and having a good time. Strangers sharing a Jeepney (sort of a improvised bus), would start singing together, girls in department stores would giggle, flirt and tell me that their friend was single! This was something else. I also noticed a much greater respect for older people. Family seemed the most important thing for most Filipinos. The older family members were taken care of and included in everyday life. Older men and women would still be full of energy and flirt with younger members of the opposite sex and no one would think there was anything wrong with that. I felt 20 years younger!

I have been married to a Filipino woman, 13 years my junior, who I met on a dating site, for over 5 years now and things couldn't be better. Filipino's are very adaptive and industrious people and they speak English almost as good as native speaker. Many men go to Thailand looking for a wife, but my friends who are married to Filipina women, seem much happier. 

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>>> 3 Mistakes That Guys Make When Talking To Women Online. You're Probably Doing One Of Them Right Now!  

Ok, so you are on PlentyOfFish or more likely Facebook and there she is: The girl that catches your attention. What do you do? I'll tell you what not to do. What 99% of guys do online and which get them zero results.

Most guys will write something generic like:"Hey! How is it going! Want to chat somtime?", or like this:"Wow! You're gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys her hitting on you, but hopefully you get this message, cause I would really like to take you out sometime", or the worst"Hey! I know you are really busy, but I am a really nice guy, you should hit me back sometime!".

These are all bad. Really, if you don't believe me, continue sending these messages, but I guarantee you that these generic messages have near 1% success rate, unless you are very good looking. And even then it's not happening very often.

So, what do you need to do? What is the magic formula?

For starters, let's get one thing clear and that is about your profile. Do NOT message any girls before your profile is perfect!

What do I mean by that?

You need to get the right pictures and the right content. An attractive girl simply will not message you back if your profile is bland and generic and the picture is bad.

Picture yourself as a hot girl, some guy messages you and he has no picture. That's just creepy. The kind of pictures you need generally speaking are pictures that convey value and personality - but not like you are thinking. We'll get to that later.

The second mistake that guys make is not to read the profile text. Admittedly, some girls go a little over the top and write a short story instead of a profile, but the first message absolutely has to be personalized. There are way too many guys using the old copy-paste message. Think about it, an attractive girl may get 50-100 messages a day. Is she going to open every messages labeled 'Hi'? No chance!

You need an attention grabber. The best way to do this is to personalize your message.

Third mistake is writing too much. This is very common. Keep it short! Remember, you need to appear as a cool, non-needy guy, not some lonely creep who will tell everyone his lifestory as soon as he gets the chance. Again, imagine you are an attractive girl and a guy sends you a full fledged novel! How weird would that seem? You barely know the girl and already you invest massive time in her.

She doesn't deserve that yet and she knows it.

I give you all the tips you need on my website! So you're in luck.

You won't be disappointed.

*** Kim: "Luckily, I found my love here in the ChineseLoveLinks, and now we are preparing marry this winter holidays -- have a honeymoon, it will be a long time — 35 days, but the sweet moments spend with him seems very short."

He gave a big surprise came to me, we met at the Shanghai Pudong airport last summer, his goofball pose and the unnatural smile will carve in my mind forever, it always turns up in my mind, makes me smile in spite of myself. Miss the time and feeling very much, cause the little mistake, the first person he met, was not me, it was my mother, but I came to him later, from the restroom, walked to him, I looked at him, smiled at him, I did so bad, like a businesswoman, just say hello, helped him to take the luggage, he was so shy, asked me gave him a hug, "Ok! Of course!". His hug make me breathless, he taught me should be breathless, such tall he is, it was the first time made me feel so sweet and happy! We already spend the sweet 101 days, in the future we will spend more and more 101 days, he is a very simple person, doesn’t like pretending, very natural and honest, his past stories and his way of talking attracts me so much, his sad picture moods me too, I was so curious, want to know the things behind the picture so much, want to use my way encourage him happy and smile, love the life, enjoy the time, I want to change the picture, painting something, such as his sunshine smile, make me warm, his honest and kind way, add the sincere from me, make the two simple hearts come together.

And now we become more and more close, more and more intimate, I feel he is a part of my body, he can make me smile, happy, cry, silent, angry, goofball, stupid, he gives me life flavors, all kinds, I want to give him honey forever, we have lots things to do in the recently years, so much plans, he makes me become charming and sexy, I make him become confidence and handsome, and the most important he rescued me from the deepest hell, I want to use my whole life repay him, I want to say cheers, my old friend forever, drink all of, please! But don’t be drunk! Haha! My chou Dandan, I love you so much!

*** Ratana: "I never thought that I would marry a Caucasian man. But my George is so loving and protective, he would never hurt me, which is different than the life I lived before he found me on the computer. I was never frightened of him from our first meeting together. Even although I knew that white men are bigger down there, he was so very gentle with me and I had satisfaction for the first time. He holds my hand when we go out and I feel so loved and wanted for all that I am. I love George more than I knew I could love. He is my very life."

My March 18, 2008 email said, "Someone is Interested in YOU!" This one felt different from the others, yet I did not know why. After a couple of introductory emails, I knew why. I was "soulmated via ChineseLoveLinks." We began Instant Messaging, audio chatting and conversing on the telephone for over three hours every day over the next five and a half months.

By May 2008, we knew we were destined for blissful eternity. Our first magical embrace at Pudong Airport in Shanghai on September 12th was surreal and wonderful as if living a real-life fairy tale. The six and a half hour train ride to Kaifeng confirmed our destined journey was happening before our eyes. We married one week later in a colorful, traditional Kaifeng wedding ceremony on my 50th birthday (six months after that first email) but I was really 49 because of the 15-hour time difference between Tucson and Kaifeng. I turned 50 at 10:50PM on my wedding night. ChineseLoveLinks is unparalleled. Best of luck to everyone else with dreams of eternal romance and magic. Yes, dreams can come true.

*** Wil & Lina: :Thank you ChineseLoveLinks from Wil and Lina In Nov 07, I wend on a vacation to tour China for the first time. Before that, In September 07, I stumbled on to this ChineseLoveLinks website and thought I give it a try and maybe I can meet some Chinese women while I was there. I was still single and had nothing to lose. I had no idea I will meet my wife on this site, but I did."

Unfortunately, we could not meet in person when the tour was in Beijing for the first 3 days but we kept in contact. We went from emails to chat then to the web cam. I enjoyed every moment communicating with her and we began to spend more and more time together on line. As time went by, we exchanged many pictures and thoughts. One day, Lina made a painting for me and said she will keep it with her till I come get it. I was so pleasantly surprised that someone would think to give me such a gift.

So I returned my gratitude by suprising her on Valentine's Day with her favorite pink roses from flora2000. From then on, we knew we belong to each other and I had to go to her home in Fushun, Liaoning to see her. I met Lina and her family in April 08. Through our long chats about herself and her family, I felt like I had known her and her family for a longer period of time. I have finally found my soulmate. In May 08, I returned with some of my family members and we were married on May 22, 2008. She is Chinese and I am Chinese-Canadian. I am so happy she can show me her Chinese culture and I will show her my Canadian culture when she gets here hopefully by December this year. ChineseLoveLinks has changed my life and filled my heart with love. Thanks ChineseLoveLinks

*** Mel: After only 3 days of being active on asiandating, I received interest from Jen, a girl from China. Her smile piqued my interest, as it showed a wonderful heart inside. We started chatting that evening and haven't stopped. I was amazed - we both shared so many interests and opinions, had very similar pasts and clicked from the first chat. We both share the same desires, the same fears, the same joys, the same outlook on life.

A month later I travelled to China for a work engagement and took the opportunity to meet Jen face-to-face. Within 5 minutes it was clear that we had something special and by the time the bus got into town (under an hour later) I knew that this was the girl I would marry. We knew each other far more than just a month of chatting and telephone calls should indicate.

The very next morning I proposed to her, she accepted and made me the happiest I have ever been. We went into town right away and bought rings for each other. The rest of our time together was simply amazing. Jen could not believe she had found such a wonderful man (her words) and I could not believe that I had found my dream girl. We were so comfortable together, relaxed and happy, and everyone could see it. Even her best friends said we looked like we had been together for years - and we both felt the same. Perhaps we had been lovers in a previous life.

We both feel that fate had a strong hand in bringing us together and joining our hearts as one. She is my best friend, my rock in stormy seas, the light in my life. We had found the true love we both dreamed of.

Since then she has met my sons, my parents and siblings, and I have met hers - once again with the feelings and certainty that we had been together for years. We compliment each other so well, understand each other in a way that I cannot explain - far beyond anything I had felt in my previous relationships even after years of marriage. Truly fate had smiled on us.

This year, on 17 April, we are getting married in China and continuing our life journey together. We are not worried how long it takes to get her Visa, as we both know that we will have the rest of our lives together. If it takes too long, I will move to China to be with her, because a love like this is worth everything. She is my world and I am hers.

We talk every day, on the telephone and online, email each other many times a day and have sent hundreds, if not thousands, of text messages back and forth.

We have a love and a connection that defies explanation, so I won't seek to explain it. When fate brings true love to your life, you know it. It has come to my life and I look forward to a happy, loving life together with my Jen.

*** Jeff: "While surfing the web one night I came across asiandating and decided to take a peek and see what it's all about. I had joined a few other so-called dating sites but all I found was greedy scam artists and a lot of grief and heartache. After looking over this site I decided to put my profile in there and see what happened. I recieved quite a few interests right away but nothing that really caught my eye at first."

 Then.......an angel appeared and said "Hi"! Her name was Ana Marie and she was a student nurse. Right away we had a lot in common and talked for about a week. She was having some sibling issues and said she was going to go to some province for a while to think. I was devastated but did not want her to know this so I just told her I would wait for her to come back because I really enjoyed talking to her and she said ok. Well to make a long story short she was gone for a year. I had deleted a bunch of people from my lists and unfortunately she was one of them. I came across her screen name on a piece of paper one day and added her back on my friends list because I REALLY liked her. Just like the first time I met her she appeared out of nowhere and this time I said "HI"!! She answered but did not remember me but after I reminded her that I was the guy who told her I would wait, she started laughing. She remembered me now but I had a big problem.

During the year she had started a relationship with a guy from Europe. We talked a lot anyway and she was trying to hook me up with her friend Grace. I talked to Grace a few times which turned out to be Ana all along. Hahaha!! I finally got the courage to tell Ana that I like Grace a lot but.........I love you.

We had stayed online 12-15 hours a day for weeks and I had fallen head over heels in love with her. Is it possible to love someone you have never met in person? You bet it is. I went to meet Ana and her family several times and on December 7, 2007 I asked Ana to marry me. She did not say yes at first but did not say no either. Several days passed and I was at a mall in Warner Robins Georgia when I recieved a text message from her that simply said "YES"! I was so excited I screamed in the mall that "She said yes!" A lot of people looked at me like I was crazy until they realized what had happened then they started clapping. On March 25, 2009 Ana and I were married.

I have never been happier and I can only thank asiandating and God above for bringing two such unlikely people together. We were married in a 17th century church in the Philippines and every day since has been the most wonderful day in my life. Thanks asiandating and thank you my precious angel Ana Marie.

 
>>> Dating Asian Women.

So, you're interested in dating Asian women. Millions of men feel the same way. Just type "Asian girls" into google and look at the number of results. Look on any adult websites - they all feature Asian women, because they know how popular Asian fetishes are. You know who else knows this? Asian women. The first thing you need to know about dating Asian women is that you need to take race out of the equation. They are human just like you.

This article will guide you on dating Asian women, and show you the do's and dont's as well as where to meet Asian women, such as an online Asian dating service.

First Lesson - Never say that you "have an Asian fetish" or "I love Asian girls" or "I have yellow fever" or anything that classifies them immediately by their race. This is probably their number one pet peeve!

Second Lesson - Stop assuming that they are demure and sexually available to fulfill your "geisha fantasies." There is this widespread stereotype that's mostly been portrayed by the cinema, that Asian women are passive, submissive objects. This is 2010, not 1010. They are not objects. Dating Asian women should be the same for you as if you were dating a white, black, green or red woman. In fact, even though an Asian woman may appear demure or passive on the surface, they are often quite sexually aggressive when they are comfortable with you. And often quite aggressive in general in relationships!

Third Lesson - If you want to be out there dating Asian women, learn to be able to identify their particular ethnicity or don't say anything about it at all! Sometimes you can get this by their last name, facial features, or accent if they have one. But don't rely on this totally. If you're not certain,don't guess! It is better to not bring the subject up at all. They are so used to this screw up by non-Asian men, that it will be such a relief to them when you don't do it! And by the way - ASIAN is NOT an ethnicity!

The Family Life - For many Asian women, especially ones from "traditional" families, it is often enforced upon them to only date men of their own ethnicity. Of course, this can work to your advantage, because women whether they be Asian or non-Asian like to rebel against their families and societal pressures. So use this "forbiddeness" to your advantage!

My experience has been that often Chinese, Japanese, and Korean women prefer Anglo white men (light hair, light eyes) whereas Vietnamese and Filipino women often prefer Latin or Mediterranean men (dark hair, dark eyes). Of course we are all individuals and these generalities will not hold for everyone. However with any form of dating, it's a numbers game. In other words, put yourself in the best possible scenarios to attract Asian women and play the numbers.

An Asian online dating service or Asian dating web site are going to be the best places to play these numbers. There are a ton of Asian dating sites! One of the best Asian dating service is Asian Dating Online. These sites take the pressure off both you and the girl, because you can get to know each other and practice some of the tips above. The best way to date an Asian woman is to get to know her and be friends with her first.

Good Luck!

==>> John Chan was born in China and moved to the US when he was 12. He has been raised in a Chinese culture and has 6 sisters. He founded and runs http://www.asiandatingonline.net/, an Asian online dating service with over a million members.

*** Ana: "I've met my husband here at asiandating March 24, 2006 while I was browsing and looking for an interesting profile. I saw that his job was in Medical field so I sent him an interest and he did the same to me. We talk through instant messenger in asiandating. After a week of continuous talk I told him that I will have my vacation to my province to think because I have problem with my siblings and I told him I will come back and he told me he would wait for me. Unfortunately I wasn’t able to come back to talk to him because at that time I still have my now ex-boyfriend. My relationship with my ex-boyfriend ended and I found another guy but the relationship didn’t work out."

After a year without talking he added me again and sent me a message saying "hi" and I asked him "do I know you?" because I can’t really remember talking to him, finally he replied me and told me "I told you I would wait for you" and voila I was laughing so hard because I can’t believe he waited for me. Since then we became good friends after 6-7 times calls every day and after almost 15 hours chatting everyday (we’re not sleeping!) He realized that he really loved me and he can’t wait for another day to tell me what he feels on me. He proposed to me December 7, 2007 and I did not answer him right away because I am not sure if I really love him. But something’s telling me that he is the one for me so even I am not sure of my feelings I answered him "yes!" through text message. He was so happy at that time and he was really happy of my answer. After a month I received my ring and it was beautiful that it made me cry.

He first came here April, 2008 (really did not enjoy much because of complicated things) he stayed for a week, then October 14, 2008 and this time when he arrived at the airport I really realized that this guy is meant for me… that he is THE ONE. He is not the sexiest guy but at that time he is the most handsome man ever. The way he smiles, the way he looks at me, the way he hugs me and for the very first time… the way he kisses me! Makes my heart melt. We gathered my papers to get the fiancée visa but we have decided to marry in the church instead. February, 2009 he came back here in the Philippines to sign all the papers.

I could’ve sent him all of it but he wanted to see me and help me personally after 2 weeks he went back to USA because he has something to do. March 21, 2009 he came back again here to prepare. We settled everything and OUR BIG DAY CAME. March 25, 2009 at 9:30AM in St. Joseph Parish Baraz Rizal Philippines I became his wife. We were so happy. It’s not a perfect wedding because there is no such thing as perfect wedding but it is the best wedding ever.

I (We) have experienced lots of things and heard some words that I didn’t like but it’s not really important to me because at that time while I was walking down the aisle the only important to me is that man smiling and crying while waiting for me in front of the altar. God I love this man… This site really rocks! We thank you for bringing us together.

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