What You Should Know About Corporate, VIP & Professional Dating

>> V I P - What you should know about corporate dating! 

If you thought that corporate dating was only for desperate singles who could not find a date the old fashioned way, think again. Every year, more eligible, highly successful singles are trying match making - with super busy lives, and little time to sift through a procession of uncomfortable and mis-matched blind dates or set ups, let alone drunken encounters at bars, savvy singles have realised the opportunities that abound online.

As the web and its technologies develop, so does the dating industry, ensuring an entirely different experience to the rather embarrassingly and very seldom discussed earlier days of dating online.

So who is trying corporate dating, and how has the classic profile of an online dater changed? In South Africa, the trend is still only just picking up, while in the US there are some 40 million singles who are trying match making services.

China has an even bigger demand, with a massive 140 million people using dating services. A large number of singles who use a dating service seek and often find marriage, and interestingly enough the average time that couples who meet online spend together before taking things to the next level is just over 18 months, while couples meeting the old fashioned way tend to spend about 42 months together before getting married.

If you thought that it was ok to embellish the truth just a little bit on your profile, you are not alone - a large number of singles are not entirely honest. The most common thing that men lie about is their age, income and height, while women are more likely to lie about their age, weight and body type. On a scarier note, in the US studies have shown that approximately one in ten members is a scammer.

This is why it is so important to only ever use a corporate dating service that screens applicants carefully, and to always choose a local service in your town to ensure that scammers have less opportunity. Gone are the days when one can share too much information too, and giving out any personal information online is an absolute taboo in today's current dating scene.

The good news is that there is a more or less even amount of men and women trying dating services. In the US, it is almost 50/50, however in South Africa there are generally more men (something that is true about bars, clubs and many other dating venues too however!). The average age varies from 18 to 45, with a somewhat larger percentage of 45+ singles. Many divorcees use dating services to look for another shot at love, and this is also one of the ages that benefit the most from corporate dating as it allows the chance to connect with other older singles or divorcees in their areas.

The biggest new rule to remember when it comes to dating services is that it's no longer about quantity. Singles are not willing to settle for large numbers of unsuitable matches, and would rather spend a bit of money on a dating service fee to ensure that they are matched with eligible partners who share their interests, values and aspirations. Simply put, singles want to find the right sort of partner and meet the right sort of people. This means that free services with millions of random applicants are no longer making the cut, while reputable services with good reputations and quality members are the biggest corporate dating trend by far.

>> Why many singles are trying corporate & VIP dating. 

For many singles, corporate dating offers one of the most effective ways to meet the right sort of prospective partners. The dating game is a mine-field for those who don't have the time to go on endless blind dates, let alone hang out in bars until the right person possibly shows up. While it's still possible to meet someone that catches your eye in the till at the supermarket, or on the treadmill at gym, generally these sorts of chance encounters are few and far between. What is a girl or guy to do then, and how does one find romance, fun and even love when you are battling to find time to get everything done in your day?

The answer is simple - you leave the hard work to the professionals, and you sign up for corporate dating, to let love find you. For a small monthly subscription or a once-off fee, you will be able to create a profile listing your own traits as well as the traits you would like in your potential partner. The agency will then carefully match your profile to possible matches, putting you in touch to allow you the choice of either going for a coffee, or moving on to the next. It really is as simple as that, and it is no wonder that so many busy people are turning to the web to help them connect.

The 5 top reasons that many singles are trying corporate dating include the following:

* Reason #1: It's convenient. Gone are the days when we had to get set up on blind dates, sit through an excruciating hour of listening to them talk about their ex, mother or recent bowl operation - these days, you simply have to go online to create a profile and begin the process of finding dates.

* Reason #2: It's safe. Obviously this doesn't mean that you should always put safety first, and while screening is always done, occasionally a few dodgy types can slip through the cracks. But overall, a good corporate dating site will ensure that only applicants who meet the basic criteria are able to use the service. As long as you stay safe, meet at public places, avoid giving out any personal information on your profile and trust your gut, this sort of dating can be far safer than being put on a blind date with Bob from accounting's brother's wife's best friend's brother, ensuring you peace of mind.

* Reason #3: It's simple. If you can send email or use a computer, you can sign up for a dating account. You don't need to do anything beyond creating your profile, browsing your possible matches and then going on the dates themselves if any strike your interest.

* Reason #4: It's fun. At the end of the day, dating is all about fun. Meeting eligible singles who share your interests and values allows you to enjoy yourself and make connections. Whatever the dates result in, you still have the chance to enjoy time with interesting people.

* Reason #5: It's rewarding. You might make a few friends along the way, but more importantly you will have the chance to meet someone special to share your free moments - somehow who understands your frustrations after a busy day at work, who can support you and add to your already enriched life. That is what it's all about really, and this is why corporate dating is well worth the experience for any single seeking love.

>> Checklist for dating services. 

Have you ever tried a dating service, only to find out half way through the registration process that it is not quite as advertised? Or have you ever gone through with the registration, and then been bombarded with emails from interested singles who are not even remotely in your country, let alone your area? If so, you are one of thousands who have had unsuccessful encounters with the dating agency option. Don't let this put you off, or ruin your chances at finding love - ensure that you follow this basic check list to get the most from your dating service.

When choosing a dating agency, always remember to check the following:

* Does the service have a fee, and is it a once-off payment or a monthly subscription? Always find out the full payment terms before you register, and also check the options for payment - does the site take credit card only, or can you make a bank transfer?

* What do you get for the fee that you pay? Whether it's a once-off fee or a monthly payment, always make sure that you know what you will be getting for the money you pay.

* Are there any hidden terms and conditions? A good dating service will have all terms and information within easy access, ensuring that you can find all the relevant information you need easily. Be careful of hidden terms, and always read the fine print before you sign up to prevent any problems from arising from you not being fully aware of the terms involved.

* What is the agency's success rate and are there any testimonials available? Any feedback you can find will help you determine whether or not the site you have chosen is what it claims to be. Some sites may even put you in touch with satisfied customers to speak to them about their experience.

* How much screening does the dating service do? This is key for safety purposes as well as to improve your chances of success in the dating game. Screening and matching of applicants ensures that you are matched with singles that share your interests, goals, aspirations and values, and also ensures that all applicants are above board. Obviously it is still possible to con the system, but a good agency will make this difficult and ensure a smooth and safe experience for all parties.

* How are singles matched up, and how accurate are the matches? Look out for agencies that simply use a very broad trait such as area to match potential couples. Area-focused dating agencies that operate within a single city are often the best bets, and agencies that match partners according to social groups, interests and other important criteria tend to offer a far greater success rate than agencies who do not properly match applicants.

* What additional services does the agency offer? Many good agencies also offer singles events in addition to their standard dating options, which adds to your chances of meeting the right sort of singles and also ensures a fun way to meet a range of people - whether you find new friends, or meet that special someone.

* Does the service have a personalised approach rather than a 'dating factory' attitude? This plays a huge role in dating success, and a dating service that understands your needs is sure to help you find love online.  Is it upscale - VIP, corporate and professional client oriented?

>> Things to remember when choosing dating services.

With a multitude of dating services out there on the web today, singles have never been more spoiled for choice when it comes to simple and convenient ways to meet people online. A Google search for 'dating' will bring up millions of results, all offering you the chance to find love and happiness. Many sites offer guaranteed results, but is this really possible and how do you know whether a site is for real or whether they are simply offering huge promises with little results?

Before you consider joining a dating site, you will first need to realise that in the dating game, there are seldom any fool-proof guarantees. When it comes to human nature, and all the complexities and emotions that each of us posses, not to mention compatibility and chemistry, love at first click (or first sight) is not always something that we can expect. Dating services can only promise to provide you with a range of good possible matches, the rest is up to fate, and up to the parties involved.

You will also need to take the following facts into account when considering dating services to use:

1. The free sites you may see generally offer the most basic services. These may allow you to post a profile, view profiles and occasionally even send and receive messages from possible interests, however there is little if any screening done and the service is limited in terms of matching of prospective partners. Pay to use services however tend to offer a broader range of services, and also have a high level of quality and attention.

2. While a good service will carefully screen all applicants, it is still important to remember how important it is to stay safe at all times. Never give our your details to someone you have just met online, and do not assume that that good looking man is who he says he is - some people lacking confidence may gloss over the truth or even post a fake or outdated photograph.

When meeting someone for the first time, arrange to have coffee in a public place and keep it short and sweet - there will be plenty of time to slowly get to know people, to ensure that they are safe to be with.

3. Consider dating services that have a good reputation, and avoid ones that do not have a good reputation. Ask around, look for testimonials, don't be afraid to ask for references, and always do your research before signing up.

4. Be clear about your relationship goals, and state these clearly on your profile. If you are more interested in making friends, networking or casual dating, then this should be indicated so that prospective matches understand what you are seeking. You do not wish to spend an evening with someone, only to find out towards the end that you have different relationship goals.

5. Look out for singles events as well as one on one dating opportunities. These give you a number of ways to meet singles and learn to enjoy yourself when dating. Newly divorced singles and those coming off a spell of singledom are able to ease back into the dating game without the pressure of one on one date, while also getting the benefit of more individual dating experiences. Choose dating services that offer a range of options to suit your needs.

>> Dating clubs 101. 

For many busy professionals, dating clubs offer one of the simplest and most effective ways to meet fellow singles, without having to waste precious free time on blind dates, clubbing or bar hopping. As the online dating trend progresses across the world, this form of dating has gone from a somewhat awkward admission to a widely used method of meeting like-minded prospective partners who are actively seeking lasting relationships.

To get the most out of your experience, look out for these must-have essentials when choosing dating clubs:

1. Decide what sort of a relationship you are seeking. Are you looking for 'the one', or are you more interested in meeting interesting people to date casually? Are you looking for long-term relationships or friendships and networking? Dating sites offer a range of options to choose depending on your requirements.

2. A good site generally charges a fee to join. This could be a once-off payment, or a monthly fee, and covers admin costs. This ensures that you will have personalised service, rather than a very basic service that free sites may offer and often also includes extras that may be useful, such as a dedicated mailbox on the website.

3. Does the site have a broad member base, with a wide range of potential matches that catch your interest? While exclusivity can be alluring, you are more likely to find suitable matches at dating clubs that have a large number of members.

4. Does the service have a good reputation, or can you find testimonials from happy customers? Do your research and look out for any negative feedback you may read about the agency. Reputable agencies have glowing testimonials and many satisfied customers.

5. Can the agency answer any questions you may have, and are they able to tell you how much time is generally taken for possible matches and anything else you need to know? Speaking to an actual representative rather than relying on what you read on their website ensures that you get the best service.

6. What is the club's success rate, and what are your chances of a realistic match? While there are never any guarantees when it comes to dating, good dating clubs will at least be able to give you an indication of your chances.

7. Does the dating site have a secure website and a privacy policy in place? Giving out personal information such as home address, email address and other details should mean that the site keeps these details safe, and you should get some assurance that your information will not be used for any purposes besides the dating service.

8. How long has the agency been operating, and are they happy to provide referrals from actual clients rather than testimonials that may not be 100% real?

9. What is the screening process for members, and how does the agency verify information from members? While most agencies will have some sort of basic process in place, a good one will be more proactive in ensuring an excellent member base with carefully screened applicants.

10. What is your instinct telling you? If you have any bad feelings, or if you do not feel comfortable at any point, don't ignore your gut feelings. On the other hand, if your instincts tell you that the service seems above-board, and you have followed these basic checks, then join the dating clubs that take your fancy, and let the fun begin!

>> Top tips for enjoying a singles party. 

Whether you are newly divorced, or simply too busy to go out, a singles party offers a low-key and enjoyable way to meet like-minded singles in the relaxed setting of an intimate dinner party. For many singles in South Africa, dating can be something of a challenge.

While some couples may meet at work, through friends or occasionally through a social setting such as a cocktail party or function, many others find it difficult to meet eligible singles - especially those who have demanding careers and busy lives.

Taking the time to go on dates and meet prospective partners, only to have them not quite meet your expectations is enough to put anyone off the dating scene, but before you give up, why not try these tips for surviving singles events and making the most from your parties.

The first thing to consider is the events agency that you choose to sign up to - this is a vital step in ensuring that your event is a success, and also ensures that you get the most from the experience. A good agency will handle everything from pre-screening of guests to careful matching of all singles invited. The agency should also make the booking and be there for introductions to help to break the ice. Follow ups and communication throughout the process is also essential to ensure a positive singles event.

If you are on the shy side and find social occasions somewhat daunting, then help calm your nerves by seeing the evening as a fun social mixer rather than a dating event. You are there to meet new people, and everyone is nervous to some extent. Find a friendly face to approach first, and remember to make eye contact and smile. If you don't feel confidence, then fake it - this will give you a boost and help you make a good impression at dinner events.

One of the most important things to bear in mind is that drinking should be kept to a minimum. While you may be tempted to knock back the cocktails or take advantage of the free bubbly to help calm your nerves, it could be disastrous to drink too much. Even if you are not aware that you are over your limit, you may be talking too loud, laughing too much or worse, driving home under the influence. You may also end up doing something that you wouldn't ordinarily do, such as make a pass at someone you don't know yet. Stay safe and drink plenty of water during the evening.

Divorced dating or those first social encounters after a loved one has passed away can be especially difficult - this is what makes social events such an ideal way to ease back into dating without the pressure of formal dating. Guests have no obligation to anything besides enjoying a dinner with seven or so like-minded people, chatting over easy conversation topics and mingling in a social environment. If you meet someone you would like to know better, you can make a connection and take if from there.

Relax, have fun and take it as it comes, and in no time at all you will be enjoying your singles parties.

>> How to have fun and find love with dinner dating. 

The singles scene can seem like a minefield to many; however dinner dating offers a safe, relaxed and informal way to survive the challenges of the singles scene without the pressure of one on one dating. Specialised dating events are the ideal way to break the ice at a dinner or function that brings like-minded singles together in a social setting.

Singles can chat to various attendees at the events and make friends, as well as network and possibly meet that special someone - all in all, ensuring a fun and casual atmosphere that is ideally suited to making new acquaintances and forming relationships with people who catch your eye.

Many singles find traditional dating a challenge, especially for those who are shy or those who do not have the time to go on dates too often. A social event such as an intimate dinner at a great restaurant is the perfect way to meet people in a more natural environment, and rather than seeing it as an actual date, you can relax and see it as a fun evening out with people who share your interests and values.

A good matchmaking agency will carefully screen all attendees to ensure that only the most eligible and well-matched singles attend, leaving you to focus on enjoying yourself at the event. This type of function is also perfect for those trying divorced dating for the first time, or recently single people who are still hesitant to try one on one dates at this point.

Dating events generally take place at different restaurants each month; however some agencies may choose a central restaurant in a city centre for each event, to ensure that restaurant staff and food is of the highest quality, to make sure that dinners go as smoothly as possible.

Generally, the restaurant will be somewhere that all guests can enjoy, with a selection of meals and wines on offer to suit all tastes. The cost of the event often includes meals and drinks; however each agency is different, so this may not apply in every case. Singles events nearly always have a smart casual dress code, and many are held on week nights, after working hours.

When you arrive at the event, make sure that you spend some time walking around and mingling with fellow guests. Often the evening will start with a cocktail or glass of wine, allowing you to interact with people before sitting down to dinner. This is a great way to break the ice, and learn the basics about your fellow guests. Don't be shy to talk to people, and send off the right impression by showing interest in the guests that you speak to, and asking about their work or where they stay.

This ensures that by the time you are ready to sit down for dinner you have already gotten to know people a little bit, which will make the dinner conversation easier all round when you are at dinner events.

Of course the most important thing to remember when you are attending a dinner function is that the aim of the game is to have fun and enjoy yourself. Hard as it may be when you are shy or tired after a hard day at the office, try and keep a smile on your face and don't miss out on the chance to interact with your fellow guests when attending singles parties. Make the most of your time and don't forge to smile!

>> How to find love again with divorced dating. 

After the stress of a divorce, you are now finally ready to get back out there. Divorced dating may seem daunting at best, and close to impossible at worst but with the help of specialised services and dating events finding romance, fun or even love once again is very much possible. To ensure that you get the most out of your dating experiences, follow these guidelines for dating after divorce.

1. Keep it simple. Dating should be fun and rewarding. Try and keep things light and fun, and rather than getting into a relationship too quickly, date a few different people on a more casual basis to help you get back into the swing of things. There is plenty of time to get to know people better if you develop a connection with someone, but for now take it slowly and enjoy yourself at social events and meet ups and focus on meeting interesting people.

2. Know what you want. Your ex may have been close to perfect, but in most cases there will have been things about him or her that annoyed you. This is your second chance to find the person who is just right for you and having a clear idea of what you want in a partner will help you find that special someone.

3. Relax and have fun. Dating should be about having fun and getting to know people as friends first and possible partners at a later stage. Dinner dating is a great way to ease into the dating scene without the pressure of a one-on-one date. If you meet someone that strikes your interest, don't hold back - make a plan to meet up again. Go for cocktails, go to a movie, have a fun daytime date and focus on enjoying yourself and your new found freedom.

4. Consider organised events. Dating agencies can be a great way to get to know like-minded people who share your interests and goals. These can take the form of singles events, in which you have the chance to mingle and interact with a range of potentially eligible singles that may be worth considering for a date or two.

5. Keep the conversation light. First dates are especially meant to be light and uncomplicated, and any conversation that ends up venturing into forbidden territory such as exes and past mistakes is a sure-fire way to ruin the mood and possibly ruin your chances at finding happiness again. Focus on your passions, your interests, work, travel, movies and any other topic that interest you without coming across as being too intense or negative.

6. Avoid comparing your date with your ex. This is unfair on many levels, and will end up doing more harm then good. No matter how great your former partner may have been, you are no longer in a relationship with them, and your date could be the person who brings you more happiness than you have ever imagined - try to give them a chance, and avoid comparing them on any level.

The hardest step is deciding that you are ready to consider meeting people. This could take years, months or even weeks - every person is different, and every situation is different. When the time is right, you will know. To help you get back into the swing of things, why not try singles parties as a great way to meet people and have fun.

>> Finding your ideal match with corporate dating. 

In the past, many singles avoided corporate dating due to the negative image that this once had. Traditionally, couples would meet through friends, or they would brave the singles scene and meet potential matches in bars or clubs.

While this has helped thousands of couples find romance and love, many couples find that they are not compatible, and end the relationship either in the early stages or much later when they realise that they do not have enough in common to keep the relationship going.

Online dating however offers way for like-minded singles to meet on a safe and neutral grounds, and as you are able to specify exactly what traits you value in a potential partner, you have far more chance of connecting with people who share your interests, beliefs and values.

This could range from sharing similar life goals and income groups, to even having compatible star signs or interests. This is what makes joining a dating agency such a worthy investment - you are able to meet eligible partners, without having to sift through masses of unsuitable dates that do not share your interests or goals. There is little point in spending an evening chatting to someone who you think may be date-worthy, only to find out that you have opposing views on values, or worse, being set up on a blind date only to find that you have nothing in common with your date. This leads to embarrassment and discouragement, and can put you off dating for good if it happens too often.

So how can you break the pattern and meeting quality singles? The answer is simple: you need to find a renowned dating service that offers a full range of benefits including thorough screening of all applicants, careful matching of prospective men and women and the security and prestige of a premium agency.

A targeted VIP agency that caters to singles in your area is even more valuable, as you can be sure that you are meeting people who live near you, rather than too far away for the relationship to ever work.

Of course, to get the best results from a dating club, you will need to ensure that you do whatever you can to present yourself in a true and positive light. Posting a profile that has incorrect information, outdated photographs, a bio that tries to hard or any lies whatsoever is a one way ticket to failure in the online dating world. Instead, you will need to put a recent and flattering photograph of yourself on your profile that represents your best features in a natural pose rather than the infamous vixen pose that your friends adored on Facebook.

A sincere bio that is honest, simple and clever enough to make people stop twice is also essential to get the right attention. All you need to mention is your interests and goals, and what you are looking for in a relationship.

Above all, you need to have a positive attitude. Studies have shown that people who believe that they are lucky are often lucky - positive affirmation and thinking is essential to ensure that you find that special someone. Believe in yourself, and believe that the right person is out there waiting for you. All that you need to do is put yourself out there to find that person, and with the help of dating services, you can narrow your search and find the perfect partner.

>> V I P - Pros and cons of corporate dating. 

As one of the hottest dating services currently to be found, corporate dating is the perfect solution for busy professionals who can't find time to date the old fashioned way. Gone are the days of smoky bars and packed nightclubs, no longer do singles have to put up with painful dates with unmatched suitors; instead singles can simply turn on their laptops to meet eligible singles who share the same ambitions, values and taste for the finer things in life. In other words, meeting highly prestigious partners who would complement you perfectly is now just a click away.

What is this form of dating service though, and how does it work? In a nutshell, corporate date services are the latest dating trend, offering a way for like-minded singles of high calibre to meet online through a secure website that carefully screens all members and applications.

For a small fee, singles are able to join one of these agencies and submit a profile. Based on the information they give in their profiles, singles are matched with potential partners that share similar interests, values, beliefs and social standing. Once matches have been made, singles are given email details of all prospective dates. They may then decide who to contact, and a first date can be organised. This is the most effective way to meet singles who share your interests, and with flexibility and full control, you are able to decide who you wish to see, and you you'd rather pass.

To get the most from your online dating experience, follow these tips:

* Use natural, un-posed photographs to post on your profile. Much as it may be tempting to use the glam picture of you dressed to kill in your Gavin Rajah and Jimmy Choo's, the best type of photograph is one that shows you at your most relaxed and down to earth. Your date will have the chance to see you dressed up soon enough, but initially, you want to appear as approachable as possible.

* Dating in Gauteng should be about fun and getting to know people. Keep the stories about your ex partner or your pets for another time when you know your partner better, and instead talk about your work, interests and passions.

* List all your interests and hobbies on the dating agency profile, and explain briefly what you do for a living. You needn't write a full essay, but a short and interesting profile that shows your varied passions and career goals is a good summary of who you are. Keep it simple, and try not to brag about your business skills or boardroom power struggles.

* Don't give out any personal or confidential information. Whether it's your street address, place of work or telephone number, do not ever post any information that you wouldn't want strangers to find. Even at carefully screened agencies such as Match VIP, it is always best to be careful.

At first it may seem daunting to get the hang of online dating, however as you get more comfortable and start enjoying the wide range of benefits you will soon relax and enjoy dates with a range of interesting and likeminded people. Even if nothing blooms out of your date, at the very least it offers a networking opportunity. Who knows, you may even find love while you are having fun and enjoying yourself.

>> Choosing the right match maker. 

In this day and age at least one of your friends will have tried a match maker service to help them find suitable prospective partners. Far from the somewhat embarrassing time when no one wanted to admit that they have turned to the web to help them find love, many singles are realising how much potential dating sites can offer.

Busy professionals especially are realising that top quality services are the ideal way to meet prospective partners who share their ambitions, lifestyle and interests and with little time to spare (or time to waste on the singles bar scene) more and more singles are turning to the web to help them find that special someone.

How does one know which site will be best for you however; and what qualities does an excellent service need to have in order to provide you with the most opportunities at dating success? There are hundreds, if not thousands of dating sites out there and nearly all of them promise you the world.

Photographs of beaming couples, and glowing testimonials of proposals and other huge results are par for the course, as is flashy design and distracting banners. Does each dating agency really offer everything they say they do however; and can they help you meet the right sort of people? To decide if a site is worth your money and effort, you need to check the following aspects:

* Is it cost effective?

Sadly, the best things in life are seldom free and to enjoy a full host of benefits, you will need to pay either an upfront payment or a monthly subscription to join a good agency. It should be an investment though, and as such, any site that charges very high rates will need to be worth these rates. Does the website offer a wide range of benefits, and will the cost you pay be worth the value or does the site look at little too over-priced for what it provides?

* Has it helped others find love?

Do your homework and see if you can find out more about how many success stories the dating club has had, and how many members are currently on board. A good agency will have the successes to prove its worth, and will also have a good size membership base. If you have any questions, don't be afraid to contact the agency to enquire about members and the type of people who join.

* Does it have a reputation?

This could be good or bad - if you search for the site in a search engine and you find glowing recommendations, then you will know you are on to a good thing. If you find horror stories and other warnings, then you will know to avoid that site. Ask friends to recommend dating services that they may frequent, and get an idea for the agencies that people are talking about (as long as they are saying good things of course!).

* How secure and private is the site?

Privacy is a very important factor, as is safety and screening. Choose the sites that offer secure settings, and that screen all applicants carefully. Generally, if you are paying for a service it keeps a certain level of quality; however no service is entirely safe. Don't ever give out personal information, and stick to safety precautions at all times. If you ever have any concerns, email the site owners to voice these worries to ensure the best corporate dating experience possible.

>> Find love at any age. 

In this day and age, it isn't as easy as we hope to find love. Previously couples would meet through friends, or at social events, however the older and busier one gets, the harder it is to meet people - especially people that we would like to see again.

Finding eligible partners is a challenge enough when you are in your twenties, however at thirty and upwards it can be somewhat harder. This is especially true in the case of newly single people who have recently broken up or divorced. Many of us balk at the idea of having to venture out to nightclubs or bars, and the thought of friends setting us up can seem less than thrilling. So what is the solution, and how to we manage to find romance at any age?

Online dating offers one of the easiest, safest and most effective ways to meet the right sort of prospective partners in a secure way. Quality sites today ensure that careful screening is done; ensuring only well-matched couples are connected. With busy professionals not wanting to waste time sifting through prospective matches only to find out that the ambitious lawyer you found only turns out to be a law student in training, quality corporate dating services have never been as high in demand.

These services take all the guesswork out of the proceedings, enabling you to securely post a profile and have like-minded potential matches contact you. This gives you the power to decide whom to see and whom to miss - and with so many excellent options for first dates in the city of Gauteng, you are certainly spoilt for choice when it comes to impressing your date.

To ensure dating success, make sure that you follow a few guidelines to get the most out of your dating experience:

1. If you are a little bit out of shape or you are not looking for something serious, be honest and don't lie or put out any pretence in your profile. Share your beliefs and your goals, realistically and honestly, and avoid glossing over key facts. Your date is going to see the real you eventually, so pretending to be someone else is fruitless.

2. Use your own picture - not a celebrity or your good looking sister or neighbour. You may get more interest if your picture shows you as being great looking, but soon enough your potential matches are going to want to meet you, so pretending will only backfire.

3. Dating profiles are often fairly standard - make your profile stand out by injecting your personality into your words. Tell a joke, make people smile, or share a rare talent that sets you aside from the rest.

4. If you only want to meet women under the age of 30, then say so. And if you won't bother dating someone who doesn't share your love of fine wines, then it's okay to say that too. Know what you want from a prospective partner, and you will attract the ones you want.

5. Although online dating has become one of the safest and most efficient ways to meet men or women you wish to date, it is still always essential to follow basic precautions such as meeting in a public place, and never giving private information until you have gotten to know your date well enough.

Above all, have fun and remember that you can have fun and find romance at any age - especially through a quality professional matchmaking service.

>> Choosing the best way to find love online. 

Originally, couples would meet through friends or at parties, but lately people find love through the internet as well as other places. In today's busy world, few professionals have the time to date around until they meet someone remotely suitable, and do not wish to brave packed clubs or bars to meet people.

This has paved the way for a number of online dating services that offer a convenient, safe and effective way for singles to meet like-minded suitors that share similar interests, goals, ambitions and values. This makes the whole dating process much simpler and easier to manage, and singles can take their pick from a number of potential matches.

There are three main types of online dating service: Matchmaking sites, events sites and personals sites. Each one offers its own benefits, and some services overlap to create a hybrid type service that has aspects of all three of these types of service. Finding the best option for your dating needs depends on your dating goals and other factors.

1. Matchmaking Sites Matchmaking, also known as corporate dating, is the most popular and effective type of dating service. This type of dating site is carefully monitored and has stringent regulations and screening to ensure that only the most eligible singles make the cut. Singles submit their profile with a photograph onto the website, and list their interests and other things that they look for in a partner. The agency then carefully screens each profiled and matches singles who share similar interests and values. These singles are then introduced through the website, and given email addresses to make contact. From there, it is up to the couple to set a date. The success rate of services such as these is extremely high, making this a worthy option.

2. Events Sites Events sites allow people with common interests to meet through informal or formal events. Hiking clubs, dinner clubs, sporting events, movie nights and other fun events are listed on websites, and users can create a profile that can be viewed by potential suitors.

These are great for those who feel daunted by online dating and prefer a less pressured environment. This service also helps singles meet men or women who share a common interest and can often lead to users finding friends, if not romance and love. Events sites are usually free to join, however singles may have to pay for the events they attend, depending on the type of event.

3. Personals Sites Essentially a basic listing of profiles, these sites are fairly basic but allow members to add a profile and browse other profiles. An email address is given in the profile, or a free email service is included, and users interact directly to meet women or men through the website. The potential risks in this type of service are that there is little if any screening, which means that anyone can view your profile and contact you. If you are careful and follow basic online dating protocol you should not have any problems however. Personals sites are generally less successful than matchmaking services and events sites as there is little common interest, and users need to find out more about their possible suitor to determine any common ground.

A high quality matchmaking service offers the best bet for finding love online, and will give you the best chance of dating in Gauteng though a handy and safe online service.

>> Can you find love and romance online? 

Everyone dreams of having a chance to find love, and in a thriving country such as South Africa, the online dating scene has helped thousands of couple connect in a safe and secure way - no more packed and smoky bars, awkward blind dates or misguided set ups.

For busy professionals who find it hard to make time to get out and meet people, this method of finding romance is particularly helpful. Smart, ambitious and successful singles are starting to flock to dating websites in the hope of meeting eligible partners who share their aspirations, goals and values. How easy is then to find romance, and what can you do to find that special someone?

The first and most foremost thing that any dating coach will advise is that the right attitude is essential before you even start putting yourself out there to begin meeting people. Meeting singles is easy, meeting the person you could fall in love with is somewhat more of a challenge. Knowing what you want in a partner and having a clear idea of the type of qualities that are important to you is crucial to meeting someone who can connect with you on many levels. You may not think that your views on children or pets is important now, but if you do happen to meet someone that you think could be right for you, it may be important as things progress.

Once you have a clear idea of the type of partner that you are seeking, then you need to consider a top of the range dating agency to help you find that ideal mate.

Don't take a chance on sub-standard web services that only offer the most basic of options; instead ensure that your agency has a personalised and thorough selection, screening and matching process to ensure that you only find potential matches that are close to you in terms of interest, goals, values and personality. The agency will allow you to create a profile that will be displayed for possible suitors to browse. Choose a recent and flattering picture - unposed and natural photographs have the most success, and show you in your best light, while stiff and posed pictures may create the wrong impression.

Word your profile carefully, and keep it simple. Avoid giving any personal information, and simply describe yourself and the type of partner you are seeking. With a high quality corporate dating service, you can be sure that all people who contact you have been screened, ensuring a secure and fuss-free connection. Once you have been contacted or asked out on a date, it is then up to you.

Research has shown that the best ideas for first dates are short and simple, and take place somewhere public. Coffee is an ideal option for first dates, and with so many fantastic venues across Gauteng, you can take your pick from high tea at the Westcliffe or romantic coffee amidst the roses at the rose farm in Pretoria. Plan to stay for an hour or so, and if you are having fun you could always make a plan for a second date. Always ensure that you have transport and money to pay for your coffee, and never go anywhere with your date until you feel that you know him or her.

For those experience the thrill of dating in Gauteng, consult a reputable agency and let love find you.

>> Dating services: the truth. 

With so many people seeking love, dating services are rapidly gaining popularity. More and more successful, ambitious, glamorous and highly eligible men and women are turning to the web to find romance and compatibility - and with such a wide range of excellent services out there, it is not surprising. Despite the increase in popularity with services such as these, many singles are still afraid to take that step and join a dating website. A large part of this is because of the myths that still linger around dating online.

While we all like to consider ourselves progressive thinking and sussed, there can still be doubts lurking about searching online to find a partner. Perhaps you have had a bad experience in the past, or maybe your friends have made you feel shy or embarrassed about your profile. Whatever the reason, it is time to bust the common online dating myths for once and for all, so that you can find the love and happiness that you deserve.

The most common myths include the following:

1. The Bigger the Better Many people think that a large dating website with millions of hits will ensure a better result, with more people viewing their profile. While this may be true in terms of sheer volume, it may not give the best results. Larger sites are often less targeted, and may not have the personalised attention and careful screening process that a smaller, more discreet service may provide. What matters most is the quality of the potential matches you are introduced - this counts far more than sheer volume, and ensures more chance of a fun date and a successful match.

2. Online Dating is Pricey

Some sites may charge a fortune for their members, but many other sites offer affordable and high quality services that don't require you to break the bank. Dating is an investment, but that doesn't mean that you have to pay huge sums to find that special person. The best dating services don't compromise on quality or value. On your actual dates, you needn't spend too much either - simple yet thoughtful dates can have just as much of an effect.

3. You Can't Find Love Online

Hundreds of thousands of happy couples can attest to the fact that you can indeed find love online. Instead of random encounters at a packed function or bar, both parties have invested time and effort to meet people to form meaningful relationships. As services such as Match VIP carefully screen and match prospective partners according to mutual beliefs, values, goals, ambition and interests, you have a much higher chance of meeting a like-minded partner - thereby increasing your chance at lasting happiness and love.

4. Long Distance Romance Doesn't Work

It may not work for every single couple, but if both parties are committed to the relationship, and truly want to be together, then long distance romance can work. The main priority is to be sensible and safe, and make sure that you know your internet dating partner - chat via Skype, send photographs, talk on the phone and connect on Facebook; whatever it takes to get to know your partner before that all-important face to face meeting.

5. You Can't Trust People on Online Dating Websites

Just like you can't always trust people you meet in real life, you get honest and good people, and not-so-good people. If you follow a few basic safety tips and find dating services that are reliable and secure, then you will not have many problems finding love online.

>> Dating services tips. 

Let's face it - dating can be a challenge. This is why it is essential to find dating services reputable enough to make all the difference between flops and success. Not only will a good agency screen all candidates to ensure that no chancers slip through the cracks, but they will also carefully match prospective matches based on a wide number of factors, including beliefs, income group, profession, values, preferences and overall personality. This careful screening ensures that singles do not have to waste time, money and effort on a date... only to find out that they are completely unsuited to one another.

This can lead to a lot of frustration, and can even put singles off the whole online dating process.

So, what can be done to ensure that your precious time is not wasted and you only meet the right sort of people? For one thing, you need to ensure that you are consulting an agency that has a proven track record, and a lot of happy clients.

Make an informed decision, ask around and don't be shy to ask your friends - just as you would never risk a fly-by-night mechanic, doctor or dentist, you should never risk a less than perfect dating service. Don't settle for anything less than excellent, and don't ever put your personal information on a dating website that you don't feel entirely comfortable with. Instead, use a high quality agency such as Match VIP, for professional and personalised services that take out the guesswork and worry - leaving you to put your energy into surviving that all-important date.

Here are some great dating tips to help you avoid potential dating disasters...

1. Get a telephone number from your date. They may not wish to give you a home number if they are married, or may give a false work number - it is always best to check if you feel unsure.

2. Always meet in a public place that you know well on the first date. Stick to daytime for the first date, and choose somewhere you feel comfortable and safe.

3. Tell someone you know where you are going and when you plan to be back, and give them as many details about your date as possible.

4. Never allow your date to pick you up from your home, and never give your address out to a stranger.

5. Make sure that you insist on paying for yourself, and ensure that you have your own transport or a taxi to get home after your date - you do not want to feel obligated to accept lifts or drinks.

6. Pay attention to things that your date has mentioned on their dating service profile. If you catch him or her in a lie, then be extremely wary of giving them information about yourself.

7. Don't take your date home with you on the first date. There will be time for that later when you have gotten to know your date a bit better. Trust your instincts, and if you feel uncomfortable at any time, don't feel bad about leaving early.

Make sure that you follow these tips to ensure your safety, and always remember to trust your instincts about the singles you meet. While reputable agencies such as Match VIP only allow the most eligible singles into their trusted client-base, you can never be certain that the people you meet are who they say they are. Trust the best dating service to help you find that special someone.

>> Best practices for online dating.

In days of old, online dating was a daunting, not all too fruitful and to be quite frank, a rather embarrassing way to meet potential partners. Men or women would post overblown (and often inaccurate) profiles, and those seeking to meet eligible singles often ended up being on a date with someone quite different from their description. This and the lack of monitoring and screening often meant that couples were not properly matched - and as a result, many singles have been put off the thought of dating online.

These days however, more and more singles are turning to the web to help them find romance, and with less time and higher standards, the playing field has upped considerably. Singles do not want to waste time searching through frogs to find their prince, and they are seeking partners who match their ambitious, successful and dynamic personalities. High quality singles deserve high quality partners after all, and this means that only the most prestigious dating service will be considered. Careful screening, co-ordinated matches based on personality, lifestyle, values and other key factors, thorough interview processes and a high caliber of service standards are essential to ensure that you are only ever introduced to the men or women who suit your preferences.

Once they have joined and posted their profile, singles are faced with the challenge of meeting and dating people they meet through their date service. This can be daunting even for the most confidant people, and many of us are prone to making common internet dating mistakes that could take a sizzling date and turn it into a rather fizzling date.

Here are a few top dating tips to help you ensure that your profile gets the right response, and that your dates are a success:

* Use natural, un-posed photographs on your profile. Much as you may be tempted to use the glam picture of you dressed to kill in your Gavin Rajah and Jimmy Choo's, the best type of photograph is one that shows you at your most relaxed and down to earth. Your date will have the chance to see you dressed up soon enough, but initially, you want to appear as approachable as possible.

* Dating in Gauteng should be about fun and getting to know people. Keep the stories about your ex partner or your pets for another time when you know your partner better, and instead talk about your work, interests and passions.

* List all your interests and hobbies, and explain briefly what you do for a living. You needn't write a full essay, but a short and interesting profile that shows your varied passions and career goals is a good summary of who you are. Keep it simple, and try not to brag about your unsurpassed skills or brilliance!

* Don't give out any personal or confidential information. Whether it's your street address, place of work or telephone number, do not ever post any information that you wouldn't want strangers to find. Even at carefully screened agencies such as Match VIP, it is always best to be careful.

If you want to find that special person without having to worry about meeting people who don't match your preferences, than a high quality dating agency is the way to go to find love in today's busy world.

>> How dating services can help you find love. 

Dating can seem like a minefield at times, and when you feel like you are just too busy to find love, it can seem even more frustrating. Friends all seem to be happily settling down, some are married, others have children - and no-one you've met in the few times you have managed to go out has quite measured up. How do you go about meeting the right sort of people in these busy times? It's actually quite simple - all you have to do is sign up for a quality dating service that connects smart, ambitious professionals, to help those with a hectic lifestyle find a chance at companionship and love.

You may think that online dating is daunting and not for you, but think about it this way: how many couples do you know who have met through Facebook, MySpace or Mixit? And how many couples do you know have been set up through mutual friends? Today's high standard of dating websites are the ideal mixture of technology and networking, offering an easy to use platform for singles to browse potential matches in the comfort of their home or office. Careful screening ensures that only the most eligible singles are listed, and all you need to do is click on men or women that you fancy the look of, and they will be sent a notification. This process allows you full control at all times, and prevents mis-matches that waste time and energy. Instead, you can literally choose your ideal partner, and if it is a match, you can choose to meet for a quick coffee or perhaps even an after work cocktail at a trendy Joburg bar. This form of professional introductions ensure more success rates than any other type of dating agency or service, and ensure only the most professional, high calibre singles.

Still not convinced that online dating is right for you? Here are some more reasons why you should consider a high quality date service to help you find that special someone:

* Agencies such as Match VIP can assist in planning the first date, including a perfect venue. The location should ideally be a neutral and quiet place to ensure that you and your date can communicate easily. Corporate dating agencies also advise a short drink, which can take about an hour. If the date is a success, then a second date such as dinner can be arranged, but at least you won't be left feeling awkward if you don't hit it off.

* As singles have all been screened carefully according to selection criteria, you can be sure that you and your date will share beliefs, values, ambitions and most likely interests too. This makes it much easier to connect, and gives less chance of the dreaded gap in conversation.

* You are able to control exactly how slowly or quickly you would like things to progress. Singles recently coming out of a divorce or relationship can stick to shorter dates as they get to know new potential partners, while couples who hit it off straight away can spend as much time as they choose together.

No matter what your dating goals may be, one thing is for certain - a highly esteemed date service offers the ideal platform for men seeking women and vice versa.

>> Meeting singles is easier than you may think.  

For many of us who are currently unattached, the idea of meeting singles that we actually find attractive, eligible and suitable may seem preposterous. Some of us may have given up home of ever finding someone special to share our lives with, and the blind dates our well-meaning friends set us up with never manage to yield any positive results. Is it really that tough to meeting like-minded singles that are as ambitious, driven and successful as ourselves, or are we just looking for love in all the wrong places?

Most couples meet through mutual friends, or through work, or in more recent years, they meet online. While online dating may seem somewhat daunting to some, results have shown time and time again that couples who meet through high quality dating websites have a very high chance of relationship success. This is largely due to the fact that dating online allows us to narrow our preferences and partner requirements down to a fine point - no one wants to waste time meeting someone who doesn't share their beliefs, goals and lifestyle after all. The online match process simplifies the selection criteria, and makes it easier to find partners who are well suited to your personality. This makes dating in Gauteng far less hassle, and takes out that awkwardness of being set up on a date with someone you have nothing in common with, and instead you only ever meet singles who you have a very good chance of sharing similar traits or beliefs.

While ultimately the success of your matches depends on how well you and your date hit it off, there are a few steps you can take to ensure that you find men or women that you will get on with best. Following these tips, and having a clear idea of what you want in a partner, will ensure the best results.

1. Be honest. If you are a little bit out of shape, don't wax lyrical about your perfect abs in your profile. Share your beliefs and your goals, realistically and honestly, and avoid glossing over key facts. Remember, your date is going to see the real you soon enough, so pretending to be someone else is fruitless.

2. Add a picture. Your own recently taken picture, not a celebrity or your good looking sister or neighbour. You may get more interest if your picture shows you as being great looking, but soon enough your potential matches are going to want to meet you, so pretending will only backfire.

3. Make an impression. Dating profiles are often fairly standard - make your profile stand out by injecting your personality into your words. Tell a joke, make people smile, or share a rare talent that sets you aside from the rest.

4. Know what you want. If you only want to meet women under the age of 30, then say so. And if you won't bother dating someone who doesn't share your love of fine wines, then it's okay to say that too. Know what you want from a prospective partner, and you will attract the ones you want.

5. Stay safe. Although online dating has become one of the safest and most efficient ways to meet potential partners, it is still always essential to follow basic precautions such as meeting in a public place, and never giving private information until you have gotten to know your date well enough.

Dating services such as Match VIP ensure that you only ever meet the highest quality singles for the best results.

>> Who can benefit from dating services? 

Whether you are a long-time single or recently divorced, dating services offer a way to meet likeminded singles without the hassle and stress of the bar scene, night clubs or the ever-traumatic blind date. Singles are able to post profiles online, to be matched with eligible prospective partners through a careful screening process. Possible matches are then connected, and singles have the choice of contacting their matches or not. Once a match has been made, both parties choose a venue for a first date and the rest is up to them.

So who can benefit from dating services, and is this option only recommended for singles that have been unlucky in finding romance through other channels? A leading service in South Africa states that services such as internet dating are fast becoming one of the most popular ways to date - and a large number of singles are joining sites to find possible matches online.

The primary types of singles who get the biggest benefit from dating services include the following:

1. Divorced daters. Anyone who has been through a divorce knows the pain, stress and heartache that go with the loss of a marriage. Whatever the reason for the divorce, both men and women find it extremely hard to get back into the dating game. Some may feel ready soon after signing the final papers; others may take a year or more to feel ready to venture back into the dating scene. Regardless of how long it takes, joining an agency is a great way to find the right sort of partner to help you regain your romance and sense of fun and adventure.

2. Widows and widowers. Losing a life partner is one of the hardest tragedies to overcome, and it can take many years to feel like you are able to love again. While well-meaning friends often try to set you up with someone they think that you may like, often this leads to even more stress - especially when you start to feel pressure from friends and family to move on. Dating services offer a low-pressure way to meet singles from your area, giving you the control to meet for a coffee, simply chat online or take the first steps towards a formal date.

3. Long time singles. Singles who have tried any number of dating options, from speed dating to blind dates, bar hook ups or night clubs often feel that their options are limited and that they will never meet the right sort of partner. It can be disheartening and frustrating to sift through all the frogs to find your prince, especially as it takes some time to really get to know someone to see if you are a good match. Dating agencies ensure that you only ever meet like-minded singles who share your interests, goals and values - simplifying the process and giving you a better chance at dating success.

Whatever your current position in the dating game, there is no doubt that it is possible and even very likely that you can find that special someone out there by using the right dating tool. Dating services are the best way to meet fellow singles to connect online. 
 
>>>  Bianca Jones knows that a good dating services agency holds the key for corporate dating and for dating in Gauteng.

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